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Topic: why I get rejected when I say that i'm algerian? 😟
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Tue 08/08/17 12:51 PM


tryin to find some answers :cry:


I don't think you are being rejected because you are Algerian.
You are being rejected because of so many reasons...
- you are not their type
- your messages are generic
- you have photos sticking out your tongue - wth!

etc etc etc




I agree - I think it's you profile & pictures. Try talking about who you are, your interests and what you're looking for - not about what you aren't.

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 08/08/17 01:03 PM
The race card doesn't work

Yödä's photo
Tue 08/08/17 01:11 PM


well it was a mistake sir and I apologise for that,and I'm really sorry if you feel offended or something

No, no, no, you haven't offended anyone.
I was using the "Berlin "as an example of how people see others.
It's not your fault.
I thought maybe France would be a better country for your search as Algeria has closer ties with them?
:thumbsup:


no,no,I was talking to that man in the top,what you have write sir was really impressive and I think that you've absolutely right

laugh ok :thumbsup:
Just a tip, when you reply to a particular post just do it by the quote . then you know who you are replying to :thumbsup:
Are you in algiers


:joy::joy:
I didn't know that untill I saw other posts,i'm so fresh in this site that's why I think I might need a tutorial.
yes I'm in algeria ☺

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Tue 08/08/17 01:14 PM
You'll get the hang of it! I know you're in algiria, are you in the capital algiers?

Yödä's photo
Tue 08/08/17 01:21 PM
You'll get the hang of it! I know you're in algiria, are you in the capital algiers?


no,I'm in the East coast,Annaba city

Yödä's photo
Tue 08/08/17 01:23 PM


tryin to find some answers :cry:


I don't think you are being rejected because you are Algerian.
You are being rejected because of so many reasons...
- you are not their type
- your messages are generic
- you have photos sticking out your tongue - wth!

etc etc etc




I agree - I think it's you profile & pictures. Try talking about who you are, your interests and what you're looking for - not about what you aren't.


thanks for your kind advice,I'll work on it ☺

actionlynx's photo
Tue 08/08/17 01:35 PM
I took a look at your profile...

#1 - I can see what you are trying to accomplish with your photos. It's really not too bad. Just a bit of fine tuning is needed.

#2 - Get rid of all the "I'm not..." stuff. Prospects will discard you by the second sentence.

#3 - Focus more on "I am..." stuff. Illustrate the type of person you are. What makes you stand out from other men? What are your good qualities? Why might a woman desire you over another? And don't focus on shallow stuff. You have to show an openness, a willingness to make yourself vulnerable for the right woman. At the same time, you don't want appear too vulnerable or weak. It can be a bit of a fine line at times.

#4 - Lastly, because of the region you're from, you likely want to show a bit of personal independence. That is, you need to show that you cannot be stereotyped. People tend to fear or dismiss what they do not understand. Give them a chance to understand you. That may make them less apprehensive.

Yödä's photo
Tue 08/08/17 01:43 PM
I took a look at your profile...

#1 - I can see what you are trying to accomplish with your photos. It's really not too bad. Just a bit of fine tuning is needed.

#2 - Get rid of all the "I'm not..." stuff. Prospects will discard you by the second sentence.

#3 - Focus more on "I am..." stuff. Illustrate the type of person you are. What makes you stand out from other men? What are your good qualities? Why might a woman desire you over another? And don't focus on shallow stuff. You have to show an openness, a willingness to make yourself vulnerable for the right woman. At the same time, you don't want appear too vulnerable or weak. It can be a bit of a fine line at times.

#4 - Lastly, because of the region you're from, you likely want to show a bit of personal independence. That is, you need to show that you cannot be stereotyped. People tend to fear or dismiss what they do not understand. Give them a chance to understand you. That may make them less apprehensive.


:pray::smiley::smiley::grinning::grinning:
that's what I call an answer.thanks man you really saved me

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