What do ladies want?

Such a pointless question. Just like every scenerio, it all depends on the person.

I've had the same problem, and will agree that *GENERALIZATION* most girls will be drawn to the assh*#e. It's genetic. Woman are coded to be lead by the belief that a dominate and abusive male will also be more aggressive in defending her against danger. And Hollywood doesn't help that image.

However, I know that I overlooked A LOT of warning signs along the way that should have told me I was with the wrong kind of women. The ones who liked me better in my leather jacket with my hair slicked back rather than my lambskin with the clean and neat look. The ones who liked it better when I yelled then when I whispered. The ones who llllloved me drunk. They were the ones who I should have been weary of.

Trickster1234:

Chicks are yellow farm animals, not females. I think it's so disrespectful to call a woman a farm animal. It's not likely a man would want to be called a pig, right?

bbbutterscotch:

Whoa here a minute. You definitely were with the wrong women. But, I love leather jackets, for myself, and on men. It's part of riding. It doesn't make a person bad at all. And men in chaps, well....I won't even go there.....I will just say that's one thing that does it for me....

Any one who can figure out what the opposite sex wants will be a billionare. There is not a standard answer because there are to many quirks to the human personality.

I'm not talking nice, leather night on the town jackets.
I'm talking full-length, faded and cracked one's from my rougher times on the road.

Couldn't have said it better...hats off to ya!!..

I don't think there would be any women/girl who wakes up in the morning saying, I want an abusive asshole today. It's kind of a topic I've been thinking about lately cause recently my friend was in a relationship and he got cheated on. She went back to her ex who could be verbally abusive towards her and could make her feel like crap, when my friend was always the good guy towards her and i've been trying to figure out how that happened. One of the conclusions I came to is it depends on the girls self image. I think there are girls who think themselves nothing special and don't wanted to be treated special, not saying they want to be treated like crap, but don't like the treated like a "princess" so to speak. And I think if they think they're nothing special then they're going to attract and possibly be attracted to the more asshole type of guy. Where as the girl who knows she's worth something and knows she deserves to be treated right with respect would end up with the guy who could treat her better. Anyway, that's just my philosophy as of late.

You sound perfect to me!!

Well, my friend, that is ONE question that has stumped man through space and time!!! Even with all his technology.....anyway, all you can do is be yourself; quiet your spirit. If they can not accept you AS YOU, why change if you like yourself?