Topic: The good the bad and the ugly
JustRazlo's photo
Fri 11/03/17 02:58 PM
Sp rate it if you would, just be honest. I can take it. the good the bad and the ugly. It's not going to hurt. might make it better . Thanks Alan

no photo
Fri 11/03/17 03:15 PM
flush it all and start over.

here's why


scammers won't read it and avoid you
second you are selling yourself so sell it
tell us about you not your past
add the positive minimize the negative
add pics that don't show you at your worst.
smile
and try adding a bit about who you would like to meet

JustRazlo's photo
Fri 11/03/17 03:26 PM
that bad

no photo
Fri 11/03/17 03:31 PM
Like what eric was saying, it comes off sounding kind of negative. You don't need to talk about having trust issues. Have a smiling photo. Change the profile headline and not mention scammers. Keep your interests on. That's good. Some might be put off by marital status of separated but if that's the way it is, leave it.

no photo
Fri 11/03/17 03:36 PM
cat said it better than i did but yes that bad

i return to my joke as reinforcement
you are trying to sell yourself

would you try to sell a car by listing all of it's faults?

tell us about you and what makes you a good one to take a chance on

separated does need to become divorced asap but is what it is for now

mzrosie's photo
Fri 11/03/17 03:50 PM
I agree with eric's and cat's suggestions.

But may I add..

.. since separated is still married, tis is a red flag for most women who will just skip your profile. So, just keep is short and sweet.

P.S. - I said most women... so you might still have a chance.

Good luck and smile!


Sambooke117's photo
Fri 11/03/17 04:01 PM
sure it is

Poetrywriter's photo
Fri 11/03/17 05:55 PM
I won't go into a long do this or do that because Eric, Cat & Rosie said it so well that I would just be repeating what they said. Follow their advice and you will be fine. Just give it time and be active in the forums to get your presence out there and be noticed. Good luck to my friend.

JustRazlo's photo
Sat 11/04/17 08:15 PM
ok I think this is better. Still need to change the Pic though

JustRazlo's photo
Sun 11/05/17 04:44 PM
thank you