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Ok so if you feel you’ve seen the right person you must do your best to be the right person too hhhmmm What do you mean sis when you say "you must do your best to be the right person"? I'm thinking you mean continue to be all that we are and be good to the one we're with? I guess I am just trying to understand what Eric is saying about not missing the person or letting them go if they are the right one sis? To be the right one for each other would mean hard work to keep it or should it be in Eric’s terms easy peasy as love should never feel hard to keep? |
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Right for now? That doesn’t feel right or sound right ? Can you rephrase? Yes, please explain. I agree with sis, it doesn't sound right. re read crystals post and add it to someones profile poem grr can't remember who i think dc many people you met in life some for momments some for life all have value ( and yes that's very paraphrased) but just cuz i see you the right way does not mean we are a perfect match for forever. some peeps weren't meant to stay. i will try to find the profile poem and quote it in full |
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Right for now? That doesn’t feel right or sound right ? Can you rephrase? Yes, please explain. I agree with sis, it doesn't sound right. re read crystals post and add it to someones profile poem grr can't remember who i think dc many people you met in life some for momments some for life all have value ( and yes that's very paraphrased) but just cuz i see you the right way does not mean we are a perfect match for forever. some peeps weren't meant to stay. i will try to find the profile poem and quote it in full Ok so that’s skeptical in a way that you’re saying we can never be sure a love can last. |
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But there can always be a right person but not a right love that can last
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Ok so if you feel you’ve seen the right person you must do your best to be the right person too hhhmmm What do you mean sis when you say "you must do your best to be the right person"? I'm thinking you mean continue to be all that we are and be good to the one we're with? I guess I am just trying to understand what Eric is saying about not missing the person or letting them go if they are the right one sis? To be the right one for each other would mean hard work to keep it or should it be in Eric’s terms easy peasy as love should never feel hard to keep? i meant more that sometimes we focus too much on the search or what not that we miss things. love should be easy peasy and come natural. relationships do take work though i feel if you need to work too hard at them they might be bad relationships |
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I believe it means we never know for sure how long any of us will be.
Some are for a reason, some a season, and some a lifetime. I think this is the poem Eric is talking about. |
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"Most people will enter and exit your life without your noticing much. Some of them will make a big splash. Some visitors will be decidedly special.
You'll have this endless parade of visitors, though, which is nice....Characters you couldn't have imagined will appear, stay for a minute or maybe a few months or maybe many years, and then leave you to your trip....This means that life is essentially a solo trip . this was the quote i was thinking of |
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Yes you both are saying the same thing
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"Most people will enter and exit your life without your noticing much. Some of them will make a big splash. Some visitors will be decidedly special. You'll have this endless parade of visitors, though, which is nice....Characters you couldn't have imagined will appear, stay for a minute or maybe a few months or maybe many years, and then leave you to your trip....This means that life is essentially a solo trip . this was the quote i was thinking of So why bother then if you're going to eventually be alone anyways? 
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I also believe that things happen for a reason,but then they would not always feel favourable and right
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Solo = sad truth
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Sis I hope Eric doesn’t feel we’re ganging up on him... it’s just nice to hear other people’s’ views..:.
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quite simply we are alone in our heads. no telepathy and even with the just the 3 of us here communication with words is rickety at best. when you do manage a relationship it's the feeling part that super ceeds the aloneness
more what i take from that is accept all the visitors in you live for what they are whether it be momentary or longer. i thinks it's the trying to make them into something more or less that ruins most relationships |
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But there can always be a right person but not a right love that can last i could die tomorrow and end the best relationship i ever had. you just don't know. so instead of obsessing about it live what ever you are to the fullest each day. |
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quite simply we are alone in our heads. no telepathy and even with the just the 3 of us here communication with words is rickety at best. when you do manage a relationship it's the feeling part that super ceeds the aloneness more what i take from that is accept all the visitors in you live for what they are whether it be momentary or longer. i thinks it's the trying to make them into something more or less that ruins most relationships Live in the here and now! And embrace that moment rather than what may come or may not come. That makes sense and I agree with that. |
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I believe it means we never know for sure how long any of us will be. Some are for a reason, some a season, and some a lifetime. I think this is the poem Eric is talking about. yes this too p i think they sort of melded in my memory 
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Live for the day and don’t chase tomorrow away
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You guys are the best!!!!
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Exactly sis
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Live for the day and don’t chase tomorrow away now you're getting it 
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