I'm not sure if I want to do one or the other quite yet but I want a very long term serious relationship with loyalty, dedication and love without going through the legal system and church or city hall and signing a piece of paper and putting that beautiful piece of gold on her finger saying I do in God's house. I'm 51 and could handle either a younger or older woman than myself. I have been living alone since 2007 and haven't got bored yet but I absolutely miss the power of touch badly. I'm all ears to read what others think about my dilemma or for women to connect with me first as I don't find that a bad thing at all as a matter of fact it's kinda of a turn on that a woman can be direct, forward and open with me in the beginning so we can see if we have a meeting of the minds right off the bat. Thanks for reading my long winded start to my first day here. Bob

I don't get what the dilemma is?

phffft

if you find her..make sure you listen to and read closely,
the lyrics of Beyonce's song.... "Put a Ring On It"
wouldn't hurt to watch the video either...
if you want to keep her, that is...

welcome to mingle and good luck...

Yea.....not seeing a dilemma...first time jitters??