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Topic: Do Good Guys Always Get Hurt??
CaRisLOVE's photo
Mon 12/03/07 11:49 AM
Im a good guy and i dont get hurt its not more like hurt, it's more like goin to tha wrong girls, unless tha girl truly knows wat she wants,why should we be hurt?

Lily0923's photo
Mon 12/03/07 04:29 PM

You know it gets quite tiring hearing that women must like to be treated like crap because they won't go out with this nice guy or that nice guy and it's usually "that" nice guy that is passing that judgment on the woman. I agree some women that is "SOME" do like dating the guy that treats them like crap. But the majority of women do not. Especially at our age. At our age most of us know what we want and what we don't want. I can tell after a couple of dates if I'm going to be compatible with someone and if I'm not then I cut it off and suggest friendship, if I feel there can be a friendship. I think the key is not "looks, nice, money, intelligence nor BAD boy", but the key is that we are attracted to that person, to the things that are important to us. I would bet $50 that for all the nice men complaining that women like to date "jerks", that those men are asking women out that are "nice" but GOODLOOKING and then they're mean women because they didn't want to go out with a nice guy. But that nice guy didn't ask out the not so hot chic that was really, really nice! Tell me the nice guy routine doesn't drip with hipocracy.....



Amen Sista, amen..... I personally don't date the pretty boys, because they are usually jerks, same goes with the pretty women (plastic type, not genuinly pretty) You need to ask yourself why are you "falling in love" with women who care what other people think, they are obviously not genuine women. I get sooooo sick of hearing about how "I'm a nice guy and I get screwed over" when if you take a good hard look at their past realtionship, it was because they were WEAK and chased the PLASTIC and then when the PLASTIC was done using them, they got tossed aside, there fore that "nice" guy was really a SUPERFICIAL guy that wanted a pretty trinket on their arm, you should be thankful she was that for a short time. Try dating a real woman. REAL WOMEN don't use and abuse, REAL WOMEN are genuinely caring and concerned for others, REAL WOMEN will treat a man (A REAL MAN) the way he deserves.
Just my 4 1/2 cents worth.
Lily

Joshy44's photo
Mon 12/03/07 04:33 PM
Yes, we always get hurt. laugh laugh

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Mon 12/03/07 04:58 PM
I'm a nice guy too!
but here's the problem with my fellow nice guys....dudes, don't where your heart on your sleeve. By that i mean, don't take it personal, like I always say...I folllow where the stars take me.

:)

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