Let's take a look at the third and a final scenario .. how realistic or romantic it might be, it's you to decide ..
Driving my car .. all alone, in the night .. the weather's terrible .. stormy winds with a proper rain and wet snow .. the road feels icy.
I'm heading home, when suddenly I notice in the beams of the headlights another car by the road, and a lady driver, apparently in trouble, desperately trying to stop me.
I'm exhausted, sleepy and hungry, but still will stop my car .. just to find out there's a flat tyre, which needs to be replaced. Not a dream job in complete darkness, when the rain pours down .. and the wind is trying to blow off your pants ..
However, as we're all alone on that narrow road in the middle of the nowhere, and she's in a real trouble, I just can't refuse ..
When the job's finally done, I'm about to leave, all wet and dirty, completely frozen, when she comes to me, takes my hand and gives me a piece of paper with a phone number on it .. saying -- I really hope to see you again .. just call me, ok? --
So, your lifetime love can be just around the corner, in the most common place, where you could expect it the least.
Just keep your eyes and heart opened, and don't have too high expectations .. otherwise dropping to the ground may break your .. nope - not the bones .. but heart
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I won't run then, but catch you when you are falling. Kinda balance that is, I suppose

I am pretty heavy to balance Lars maybe bring a wheel barrow? but its a good feeling to know someone will look after you so you wont get hurt

That's a good advice! Don't focus on your high hopes or dream visions. Reality is gonna be different anyways. So if you're going to meet someone in person the very first time, should be wise to leave your expectations and visions home .. and start from the blank page .. take it as watching an exciting movie or adventure trip, where you two are starring, but no idea, how it might end .. improvisation combined with a good sense of humour should be in place.
Also .. a big and warm smile is always a good icebreaker for starters .. the very first meeting doesn't have to end up with 100% success, but would be nice if it won't leave a bitter taste in your mouth - to both of you.
Thank you, Earth Girl!

A different scenario:
We would both decide to meet on neutral grounds and for a very first meeting we decide to go to a romantic country.... Paris. He will be flyjng a day ahead of me as he would want everything to run smoothly. On the day of my arrival , i would be fetched by someone else who will give me a letter coming from him with a scent of his perfume. The driver then will bring me to a plaza where a table and another letter is waiting for me. I would feel his gaze and smell his closeness but still not sure where he is . Then suddenly out from nowhere i hear his voice saying: i have waited long enough. I feel his hands on both of mine and i feel myself trembling, anxious to see his face and look into his eyes. He asks me if i want coffee and i would say all i want is him and the sunset thats about to not end the night but start a lifetime of togetherness

Then a thud ... it was just a dream

Through the years i have met a couple of ladies off other sites. Other than meeting in a public place i never have any expectations. I take the first meeting just a greeting so there is no pressure.

As for the dress code. I prefer casual. Might as well be comfortable. definately need comfy running shoes.

him or his comfy running shoes fervi?

Actually it's pretty realistic and a really good idea - to meet someone on a neutral ground .. and somewhere romantic place .. all the personal life will be left behind .. just a blank page to start from.
This dream has a great potential to become real. Or as one of my friends used to say -- Watch out with your dreams - they might become true some day.