My friend told me that for me to 'find love, I must be ready to love'. And this is true. To enjoy a real and lasting love and relationship, you will have to add these spices and sparks yourself:

1.Be you: You need to be sincere to yourself. That's what people out there wants to see. Your profile image should be you, not a make believe. You won't want to tell that person to see your real picture later after some months of engagement. Profile picture is least but your story starts from there. Your friends want to see that oval shining blond smiling face of yours.

2. Be Authentic : Don't try to accommodate every interest,nope. You are not running for the presidency, you just need a certain class or set people or person. For instance if you need single parent/divorcee,25-40 age limit, 40-65 age limit,etc. Be proud to state them. This is where your choice as a person comes to play. Let your friends know the type of person you are and what spending time or moment with you feels like. You may want to do away with every day choices of active, travelling and others. You may like to state a more personal hobbies or exercise you did like to play with your friend /parner.

Others later......