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Topic: People needs to know themselves
Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 09/13/18 09:32 AM

the problem is there are wayy too many bots on this site and not enough real people.. for example i live in pennsylvania yet nobody ever logs on from PA its always other east coast states

Nearly all internet dating sites have scammers, fakes and predators.

Lets say your local area consists of 100 men or women (which ever you are seeking) that fit your preferences.
Of that 100;
70 of them are married or in a relationship and are not looking
Figure about 15 of them are not in a relationship and are not looking.
Another 10 are looking but not using the internet.
4 are looking and using the internet but not a member here
That leaves 1 that is here, looking but have their own preferences.

Seen over a month ago could mean, they were here, looked, saw nothing they liked and moved on.
That's like going into a pub, looking at who's there then turning around and leaving to go to a different pub or just go home.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Thu 09/13/18 10:20 AM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Thu 09/13/18 10:21 AM


the problem is there are wayy too many bots on this site and not enough real people.. for example i live in pennsylvania yet nobody ever logs on from PA its always other east coast states

Nearly all internet dating sites have scammers, fakes and predators.

Lets say your local area consists of 100 men or women (which ever you are seeking) that fit your preferences.
Of that 100;
70 of them are married or in a relationship and are not looking
Figure about 15 of them are not in a relationship and are not looking.
Another 10 are looking but not using the internet.
4 are looking and using the internet but not a member here
That leaves 1 that is here, looking but have their own preferences.

Seen over a month ago could mean, they were here, looked, saw nothing they liked and moved on.
That's like going into a pub, looking at who's there then turning around and leaving to go to a different pub or just go home.


Yep.

Then there are those who get pushy when you tell them *why* you wouldn't be compatible....that you are "limiting yourself". or "have trust issues" or have "walls"..

When the reality is at 50+, one should have a *clear* idea of what they like and don't like...and what works for them and doesn't....based on life expereinces they have lived...

Honey..I do not NEED to *try* firewalking to know that walking over hot coals is not something i am interested in doing...laugh

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