Hi, I am HIV positive and I am lonely. Is there anybody else in the Cape Winelands area who is also positive and needs company? There are a few dating sites available, but generally they absolutely suck!!

Help?

Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here. I'm not sure if there is anyone on here who is HIV positive.

*shrugs* but you never know these days.

Welcome and best wishes in your search.

Welcome to Mingle and best of Luck in your search.

Thank you for the views and the good wishes. I truly hope there will be someone out there that finds me interesting enough to contact.

Hi, welcome to M2 forums.
I have bloodwork done everytime I see the Dr.
So far no communicable disease (the check as SOP).

I've thought about what I would do and I would NEVER date again because I couldn't live knowing I "killed" someone.

Since I have no basis to make an informed comment all I can say is make sure the person you are dating is also HIV positive.
That way, you won't give someone you might love a disease that is life changing.
Its common respect and extremely important.

I hope you find a match and things work out for the both of you.
Your honesty is commendable.

Thank you, finding someone also with it is the idea behind the post. The h+ dating sites are really rubbish!

lol so are the H- sites.

I am noticing that! I was at the local clinic yesterday to get my script filled and even asked them if there were any support groups in Tulbagh and no, they tried but people here are either in denial or just don't care.

I find that rather scary that we live in such a modern time and people still cling to stigma and uninformed beliefs. Weird little creatures, us humans!!