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Topic: Married men in sexless marriage on dating sites looking for
Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sun 02/24/19 01:42 PM
Not my business what they do What if they want their business to be up in your business?

Eddy Joined Sun 02/17/19 Posts: 1	Sun 02/24/19 05:23 PM
I am in a sexless relationship

sohag4 Joined Sat 05/12/18 Posts: 2	Tue 02/26/19 08:10 AM
inbox

Raaj Joined Sat 02/23/19 Posts: 1	Tue 02/26/19 08:13 AM
hi

Ashutosh Joined Thu 02/21/19 Posts: 2	Tue 02/26/19 11:24 AM
Hi, i m Ashutosh from Baroda. I m trying this dating site for an open minded female buddy. I m married but wish to have a private life also. Also planning to go on a vacation for 2 to 3 days. If all goes well, i wish to go with u.. if u feel ok, plz get in touch with me

chris2460 Joined Thu 11/17/16 Posts: 834	Tue 02/26/19 12:02 PM
As an older gentleman that well understands the part about satisfying your partner, I don't think I have ever in nearly 60 years had a woman tell me what gave her pleasure; it has always been hit or miss and hope for some positive response. It seems that many people are incapable of sharing their sexual likes and desires with a partner. I don't know if it is their upbringing or their fear of either offending or being harshly judged for their desires that is the problem!! Did you bother to ask? Probably not in general terms but sometimes for specific likes or dislikes. Those questions are very personal and it is something that your partner should express when they are comfortable; that is like asking someone if they are gay or lesbian. When was the last time you were in bed and asked your partner if they were gay or bi? Probably never! I still think you should at least try asking - probably while the two of you are in bed to together -if she can't open up then she probably never will, but it's worth a shot!

I_love_bluegrass Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 1665	Tue 02/26/19 12:16 PM
As an older gentleman that well understands the part about satisfying your partner, I don't think I have ever in nearly 60 years had a woman tell me what gave her pleasure; it has always been hit or miss and hope for some positive response. It seems that many people are incapable of sharing their sexual likes and desires with a partner. I don't know if it is their upbringing or their fear of either offending or being harshly judged for their desires that is the problem!! Did you bother to ask? Probably not in general terms but sometimes for specific likes or dislikes. Those questions are very personal and it is something that your partner should express when they are comfortable; that is like asking someone if they are gay or lesbian. When was the last time you were in bed and asked your partner if they were gay or bi? Probably never! I still think you should at least try asking - probably while the two of you are in bed to together -if she can't open up then she probably never will, but it's worth a shot! THIS ^ Also, this curious comment: "When was the last time you were in bed and asked your partner if they were gay or bi? Probably never!" Dude. I THINK I'd have asked such things before we'd made it that far....

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Tue 02/26/19 01:36 PM
T.Roy - oh how I recognize so much of that story!! It seems like women go through menopause and some come out with a great desire for sex while others come out just the opposite. Mental health issues really cause even more of those problems. I don't think most men have any comprehension of what menopause and women's hormone imbalances are like at that time or after.

I_love_bluegrass Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 1665	Tue 02/26/19 02:11 PM
T.Roy - oh how I recognize so much of that story!! It seems like women go through menopause and some come out with a great desire for sex while others come out just the opposite. Mental health issues really cause even more of those problems. I don't think most men have any comprehension of what menopause and women's hormone imbalances are like at that time or after. Hormones are funny things.. There is a LOT of factors that contribute to a woman's sex drive....some are medical, some are mental (possible resentment of her partner for whatever reason).. Not all older women lose it.....each one is different... Would you guys like it if women said ALL men are jerks/ asholes/players, because those are what they have met so far/ run across? No. Then don't base your opinion on older women on the ones you have so far run across....

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1711	Tue 02/26/19 09:06 PM
T.Roy - oh how I recognize so much of that story!! It seems like women go through menopause and some come out with a great desire for sex while others come out just the opposite. Mental health issues really cause even more of those problems. I don't think most men have any comprehension of what menopause and women's hormone imbalances are like at that time or after. Hormones are funny things.. There is a LOT of factors that contribute to a woman's sex drive....some are medical, some are mental (possible resentment of her partner for whatever reason).. Not all older women lose it.....each one is different... Would you guys like it if women said ALL men are jerks/ asholes/players, because those are what they have met so far/ run across? No. Then don't base your opinion on older women on the ones you have so far run across.... I don't believe there is any reference in the posts that reference "all women". I believe it even said something about different women react differently to menopause.

michycandy26 Joined Sun 08/12/18 Posts: 3	Wed 02/27/19 12:41 AM
Hi

Unknow Joined Wed 02/27/19 Posts: 2	Wed 02/27/19 01:04 PM
hey baby i am not married.try me for best sex

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 02/27/19 01:10 PM


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sahil mehra Joined Tue 01/22/19 Posts: 3	Wed 02/27/19 05:15 PM
yes

westy602 Joined Mon 10/10/16 Posts: 469	Fri 03/01/19 07:57 PM
idk...lets see...theyre looking just to post in the forums... harmless flirting & banter a couple of scambot pics saved.. big deal.. who cares

sathiya Joined Sat 03/02/19 Posts: 1	Sat 03/02/19 01:45 AM
hi

Mukul Joined Wed 03/06/19 Posts: 1	Thu 03/07/19 01:54 AM
Married men/women on dating sites looking for someone? Not cool.

Make a wish! Joined Wed 03/06/19 Posts: 1	Fri 03/08/19 06:55 AM
Theres no harm to rock like ridin bull, until he dont find :-)

Tomwilson1666151 Joined Fri 02/15/19 Posts: 1	Mon 03/11/19 12:25 PM
It seems like the old bait and switch. In the beginning everything is great. Trying all these positions and letting it all hang out (pardon the pun). Then after a bit comes all the excuses, work, kids, tired and on and on. If you were to by a car and really loved the car you’ll go and buy the parts needed to keep it running and looking great. When the car finally doesn’t give you what it did in the beginning I guess it’s time to get a new one.