dont know why its so hard to find someone.its really not all about looks.i've seen some women not all that have a nice house,non cheating man.they dont even put out much.they men seem like good fathers.why did i get so unlucky?out of all the men i picked the worst.a user,liar,ruined my credit,took my car.i mean i could write a book he was that bad.he still is.i've gotten to where i say look i dont believe a word u say.dont waste your lies on me..it doesn't work.now i just want a normal person to be a good role model for my son and move on.i wasted enough time.anyone been screwed over this bad?

Just keep trying metina. You'll find your one someday I promise.

It's hard to find anyone decent. I've found one good one and about 90 bad ones so far. Seems a little imbalanced to me, but that's reality....

I keep thinking the law of averages is in my favor, but you know how people are about "laws"....!

OH yes I have.......the things I can tell you about my ex will have you saying what a sweetheart yours was......when I tell people about him, the first thing they say is "what a ...."

I will be nice and not say that word on here.

Keep your chin up and keep smiling, you will find the guy that makes you forget all the bad!!

Yes, we have all been screwed over. As to "this bad" we all feel different about what has happened to us. But all I ask is this, please just move forward and don't whine. If you focus on the past then you'll negatively impact your future.

I wish you all the luck in finding a happier relationship.

i've been screwed over every bit as bad as you, you just gotta be carefull about who you do pick and remember thier not all the same. takeit slow and see hwat the people are like before you think about getting even remotely serious.

your not the only one that has come across a bad apple......
just keep your head up and think positive and you will find someone that is worthy.