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Topic: casual vs not so casual
oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1709	Fri 11/01/19 09:02 PM
"Yet... women recover, find their feet and want a new relationship, are able and willing to take the risk of getting hurt again as that's the only way to love. Why can't men do that?" Maybe the answer lies in this question: Why do women want that new relationship? What do they expect to get out of it that men don't? What price are they willing to pay for that relationship? What is the true definition that most women use for a relationship? I don't see the relevance to the OP's question, nor to mine. What women hope to find in a new relationship has no relevance whatsoever to why men can't seem to heal from one. All you're doing is avoid the question and try to get back to the tit-for-tat game to do some women-bashing. I'm not interested in that game. Men heal from their past experiences, the difference is in what they are looking for or will accept after that. What you view as "not healing", men see as the new normal for them. While women are looking for a new relationship, men are looking for a more casual, fun experience. It can even be monogamous but you are not moving into my home 24/7!!

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10623	Fri 11/01/19 10:49 PM
I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm here for entertainment.

Dignity81 Joined Thu 07/25/19 Posts: 10	Sat 11/02/19 01:53 PM
Just ones mind set.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76353	Fri 11/22/19 06:28 AM
why is it I have noticed that most women after a divorce are on here looking for a relationship but most men it seems are looking for something casual explain please... Hummm have noticed the same.. I assume many just don't want the responsibility of a one on one relationship. Or they may have recently broke up and not ready to have one.. Funny thing is many that say that it is normally due to they just have not found that one where the connection is there for them.. And well as far as the women I'm sure there are many that say relationship cause they don't want to say they are testing them out till they find the right one.. lol

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Fri 11/22/19 08:49 AM
why is it I have noticed that most women after a divorce are on here looking for a relationship but most men it seems are looking for something casual explain please... Hummm have noticed the same.. I assume many just don't want the responsibility of a one on one relationship. Or they may have recently broke up and not ready to have one.. Funny thing is many that say that it is normally due to they just have not found that one where the connection is there for them.. And well as far as the women I'm sure there are many that say relationship cause they don't want to say they are testing them out till they find the right one.. lol Lol, well I wouldn't mind testing out a few... just gotta find a few who's willing to be tested.

ankit singh Joined Fri 11/22/19 Posts: 4	Fri 11/22/19 09:19 AM
hlo

James Joined Thu 09/19/19 Posts: 1	Fri 11/22/19 10:06 AM
I love you, there are many fake pages on here, text me

Chloe Joined Thu 09/12/19 Posts: 12	Fri 11/22/19 10:11 AM Edited by Chloe on Fri 11/22/19 10:13 AM
Anyway, can't a friendship start out as casual then move on, then friendship, then dating, then whatever the 2 people want to do & not what other people try to dictate should happen??

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Fri 11/22/19 10:24 AM
Anyway, can't a friendship start out as casual then move on, then friendship, then dating, then whatever the 2 people want to do & not what other people try to dictate should happen?? I believe it can be whatever the two people want it to be. It's not anyone else's business if two people want a casual relationship. It would appear though, like TxsGal mentioned, that women are more apt to say relationship even if they feel otherwise. As much as times have changed, I still feel there's very much of a double standard going on. There's not so much a stigma towards men who want to have casual relationships, it's more sociably acceptable. Women however, are still seen by quite a few as trollops if they only want casual relationships or flings, imo.