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Topic: I lied
stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:40 PM
Ok, I lied, my last post wasn't the last one I would do. I was actually wondering, do girls ever make the phone call? It seems like I am always the one that calls my girlfriend, she doesn't call me.

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Fri 12/14/07 05:43 PM
i call- especially if i am in a relationship

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:44 PM
how can i get her to make the call?

coco56 Joined Sun 06/24/07 Posts: 12347	Fri 12/14/07 05:44 PM


stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:45 PM
she calls if she is returning a call

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:45 PM
do i bore you coco?

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Fri 12/14/07 05:45 PM
have you communicated this to her?

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Fri 12/14/07 05:45 PM
You can't force her to make the call. If you have to work so hard to get her to call you maybe it's not worth the trouble. Just a thought.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 12/14/07 05:45 PM
I call but you should be calling each other. You shouldn't be doing all of the calling. If I remember correctly, and please correct me if I'm wrong, but did you post a while ago about how quiet you are and how you don't like to talk? But now you say you have to do all the calling??

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:46 PM
that is me jill

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 12/14/07 05:47 PM
how can i get her to make the call? You should NEVER feel that you have to make her call you... she should WANT to call you. There's a big difference.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:48 PM
I know that

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 12/14/07 05:48 PM
Soooo... you're the quiet one and yet you do all of the calling?? No offense but I am thinking your conversations together aren't all that, um long?

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Fri 12/14/07 05:48 PM
how can i get her to make the call? dont call her until she calls

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:49 PM
yes Jill, but it's nice to let her know I'm thinking about her

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 12/14/07 05:49 PM
You can't make any body do or want to do anything... I found this out already, trust me. If she isn't putting any effort into it, maybe you shouldn't either. Have you tried not calling her for awhile? Try it, see how long it takes her to call you.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:50 PM
I don't really understand why people think phone conversations have to be long anyway.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 12/14/07 05:50 PM
yes Jill, but it's nice to let her know I'm thinking about her Which is EXACTLY why she should be calling you too.. to let YOU know that she's thinking about you too.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 12/14/07 05:51 PM
You don't understand why phone conversations are long because you are natuarally a quiet person. Maybe you just haven't found someone that brings out the best in you, to where you want to talk to that person alot and you just have a lot to say to each other.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 12/14/07 05:53 PM
yes Jill, but it's nice to let her know I'm thinking about her Which is EXACTLY why she should be calling you too.. to let YOU know that she's thinking about you too. I agree with that