Honestly, I think you shouldn't call her for awhile and wait to see how long it takes her to call you. Give her time to miss you.

wow, that sucks

I hate talking on the phone. I only call someone when I have something to say, not just to call for nothing. However, in person, it is a completely different situation, I will talk like it is nobodies business. Maybe she is the same way, have you tried asking her. Maybe she doesn't like talking on the phone, is too busy to talk on the phone, or maybe she isn't as intersted as you. You should talk to her about it if you think this is a problem. Communication is the biggest thing in any relationship. If you can't talk to her about this, then it isn't going to last.

why does that suck?

steve steve steve the man with many question look dude you can ask opinions all night and you can continue to speculate also but the one you should be discussing these questions with is your girl friend then you will know how she feels rather than sitting back and thinking up more questions ..go steve and talk to her not only will you get the answers you will open up a good line of communication jmho

she may feel smothered! have you tried give her alittle space? i had the same probelm with an ex, i stopped calling and 1 day passed before he called me!!

I have a novel idea!! Why don't you discuss it with her?!?!
If you are not comfortable discussing likes/dislikes with each other than I would slow down, take your time and grow into a relationship.

i've gotten one opinion about asking her if she would like to talk every day. What do people think about me asking that question to her? or ask her how often she would like to talk?

I know I like to hear his voice first thing in the morning. I do call him....it is a two way street...as they say.

don't call her for a week. if she doesn't call you then she is not really very interested in you. that sucks. but it is better to find someone who is actually interested in you.

for a relationship that is...
umm don't hang around waiting for her to call. go out and have some fun with your other friends in the meantime.

It should be going both ways. Nothing is ever 50/50, but you know what I mean. Or at least I hope you do.

I was dating someone over the summer that I felt like I was doing all the calling to. Felt kind of stalker-ish. Learned from my current relationship that when someone is into you they will call you (or be in contact with you) as much as you are with them. Very nice vibe.

Wonder if you don't call her as much if she will be the one to call? Hate to say that out loud (or write it). Don't want to suggest you play games since that is not nice.

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don't really have any friends, they all abandoned me a long time ago

I am not a caller, I usually wait until he calls, I figure he is busy and I do not want to be a bug, but if you do not call her and she doesn't call you, that should tell you she's really not interested. Because if he hasn't called at least once during the day or evening I call him at night to make sure he is alright...lol

I guess no one else has an opinion about asking her. Communication is the key to any relationship.

I did tell her i think about her every day

i agree with MelissaJO519 she maybe smotherd. just back off for a while.. she wil call you if she wants to talk. rember what will be will be..

after reading this post and your previous posts MY OPINION is that maybe she isnt your girlfriend, maybe you want her to be your girlfriend.
first you tell us that she wont kiss you, now your telling us that she does'nt call unless she is returning a call.
i dont think she is in to you.

Sorry to say this, but I don't think she's interested in you. From what you've brought up in posts, not one time can I recall a move on her part that would indicate she is interested in you. Constantly telling her you're thinking about her will make her feel smothered and push her further away if she's not feeling the same way. I wouldn't call her for awhile. If she doesn't call, then that's your clue...and you should move on.

You could force her to, I mean, you could drive over to her house, kick in her door, shove a phone in her face and physically make her push the buttons, of course she might think you're abusive and weird, and I couldn't blame her for it.

Or use jedi mind trick if you're really a Jedi, but if you really think you're a Jedi, that might be why she isn't calling.

the question is can you come up with any good reasons why she wouldn't call you