Topic: Why love is so hard ?
sam's photo
Thu 04/09/20 07:04 PM
not the love. the person. thats why we should picked someone that is loyal and faithful, her/his inner being, characteristics not the face or body whatever

SpicyExcel's photo
Thu 04/09/20 07:41 PM
Love in the beginning is an attraction towards a potential person whom you may want a life time relationship with. After we start to learn about our partner, yes there are demands upon our first impression of a partner. The world and relationships are not what they were 50 years ago. People are more impressed with new things rather than being happy/content with what they have in the present and from the past. As equal rights have come to the forefront of relationships personal and business relationships have been struggling to survive, because many want what is new in society.

People need to look at how the marketing machine works and how it effects our personal life and relationships.

Bernard2020's photo
Mon 04/13/20 09:51 AM
Where are you from

manofsteel's photo
Mon 04/13/20 06:27 PM
well said , if every one can apply these you mentioned then everything will be ok and alright, how are you and nice to meet you here can i know you more the name is Robert

Michael's photo
Mon 04/13/20 11:24 PM
What are your expectations from love

Dilawar's photo
Wed 04/15/20 06:32 PM

who says love is hard...
do ypu believe its easy?

PRAISE EL's photo
Fri 04/17/20 03:55 AM
every person can be the right person, it's just a matter of right attitude

PRAISE EL's photo
Fri 04/17/20 03:56 AM
that's the real thing to do in order to have peace in any relationship, even marriage

Stanleyman's photo
Sun 04/19/20 01:49 AM
Three things I hate about love. Fakes, people that pretend to care, and just people.

no photo
Sun 04/19/20 04:51 AM
A Loved Person

msharmony's photo
Sun 04/19/20 07:26 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 04/19/20 07:27 AM
Love is not hard, as someone else noted. Mutual love, or making love last is hard. We can only control how we feel, not how others feel. It is disappointing when what we feel does not match how another does.

I think it is hard also because of the different definitions two might have on what love is also.

If you are a person who thinks of love from the perspective of what the other person does for you (and how it makes you feel), it is harder because, as I said, we cannot control others actions or feelings. If you have two people with this definition of love, it is harder to make it last.

If you are a person who thinks of love from the perspective of what you want to do for the other (and how it MIGHT make them feel), it is a little simpler because it is only dependent on the things you do which are things you have control over. If you have two people with this definition of love, I think it makes it a bit easier to make it last.

If you have two people each with different definition of love, it is probably hardest to make it last.


I think most people think of love from the first perspective, unfortunately. JMHO

Femi Nairobi 's photo
Thu 04/23/20 03:22 AM
You are 100% Right

Femi Nairobi 's photo
Thu 04/23/20 03:23 AM

If you understand sacrifice, if you put your husband or wife before your own needs and you both are sacrificing for the other....you will succeed. There is no room for selfishness in love.


For real

j0055's photo
Sat 04/25/20 04:22 AM
hi
yes you're right.thanks

Kyel Francis's photo
Sat 04/25/20 05:03 AM
some ppl can do it my parents did. but yes i believe it is not easy and takes a lot of work.

Kyel Francis's photo
Sat 04/25/20 05:04 AM
no i believe people are atracted to people who focus on themselves

Kyel Francis's photo
Sat 04/25/20 05:06 AM
stop complaining, and think of solutions. the problem is probably you have you ever thought about that?

no photo
Tue 04/28/20 06:19 PM
I agree. Falling in love is nothing more than your affection growing for a person when you're getting to know them. Love is an action and not a feeling. Feelings vary. Love is constant and unwavering. at least, it should be.

no photo
Thu 04/30/20 05:09 AM
It's harder to find love

no photo
Thu 04/30/20 06:52 AM
There is no fear in love - real love, that is. People nowadays equate lust with love and that is very wrong.