I have never dated anybody online. I have been chatting with this very nice guy for a few days now. I really want to meet him and I want things to go well. Does anybody have any advice on what I should do?? I feel like I can totally be myself when I am talking with said guy. I think that is a great start. Its just that every time I start dating somebody after date 2 things never work out...either on my side or theirs....they turn out not to be the nice guy they claim to be. I am really looking forward to meeting this guy?? Can I have some info from some groovie chicks and dudes?? lol.

always go with a friend never on ur owne, in a place u know and let people know who u are with and ware

lol...it's just like any other; you have to just do it and see what happens. Good luck

always meet in a public place. always aleast bring a friend.
if u feel safe at the end of the date and want to be along its best that u wait util next time. dont rush into anythng that u dont feel safe with.

Agree, It's beast to meet at a Public area. If you going solo to meet, But might be best to bring a friend or someone. You never know who you might me. But take it safe, Smart, and have fun. But yeah if you feel like you really want to, do it.

I would meet him in a public place first. I find either for coffee or at a diner is best for the first meeting. Let your friends have his cell phone # and as much info that you know about him already. Believe me, I don't consider myself to be a paranoid person, but you never know what can happen. There are too many sick people out there. It is always best to place it safe. I wish you luck with your meeting....

thanks everybody for the advice. I will definatly keep it all in mind *takes out a pad of paper and starts writing notes* lol

thank you so much for the great advice. I will keep that in mind.

some may disagree with me on this one... but if you really want to be safe you can always use a reverse number look-up, get the name for the number given and do a criminal background check on the person. i've done it once or twice to be safe (and i have criminal justice majors as friends who wont let me do other wise), and i haven't had any problems or bad luck.

just be safe, meet in a public area, and let people know where you are.

just an update....dude turned out to be a jerk...look out for ted!