What do married women think they might contribute to others looking for
dating or marriage. It is something that really bothers me to see such
women. Smacks of head games and cheating. It really is a bother to see
and seems a little pathetic to know they are so unhappy in their
relationship that they have to cyber to get attention.

not that I agree... but women are doing EXACTLY what men are doing... no
difference... and men do not like that...

^5 glowing,,,,,, is it ok for the men to do it but not the women?

WELL IF I WERE MARRIED I WOULD BE NO WERE NEAR A DATING SITE,I BELEIVE
IN COMMITMENT AND IF YOUR ONLINE CRUISING OTHER PEOPLE ITS JUST AS BAD
AS CHEATING TO ME.IF YOUR PARTNER IS OK WITH IT THEN MORE POWER TO
YA,BUT FOR ME...ID NEVER DO IT

why not?

WHY NOT??? ONE WORD COMMITMENT

If one is up front and honest and their other half is ok with it than
who am I to judge?? No foul,no harm!!HONEST and UP FRONT are the key
words here.

I GUESS I JUST BELEIVE IN BEING WITH ONE PERSON,IM A VERY LOYAL AND
UPFRONT PERSON,HONEST EVEN IF IT HURTS,IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE ENOUGH THERE
IS NO NEED TO BE ON A DATING SITE,NO NEED TO LOOK AT OTHER GUYS ATLEAST
FOR ME

i am not married but I have to agree as long as one is Honest and
upfront about something and not sneaking and hidding it ,I dont like to
be judge and I dont judge others, I know alot of married couples who are
online for the fun ..

They can't be to committed and be on here and ask some of the questions
that they are asking. If I was married, I would hope that my mate would
not be on a singles site like this...I would hope that he would be
getting everything he needed from me. And if he wasn't---he should be
talking to me, not everyone else!!
You are 100% right paterafan...the big word here is COMMITMENT.

This site has a couple women on it that are supposedly not here to meet
anyone but here to learn and give advice. I find this weird. You got
your man, now please go get a hobby besides trying to give advice to
someone that has been married for 16 years when you are on your first
marriage of less than 3 years(honeymoon years).

Amen once they reach the 15year mark then I may be willing to listin to
their advice.

Well if you notice, one of those ask a lot of very naughty questions. I
don't know, is her life so boring that maybe she is living through us?
If so, she is in deep trouble because my life is very boring!! I just
truly think if I was married to that person, I would be asking what am I
doing wrong?

I got the impression that this person asking a 101 naughty questions is
still exploring her sexuality and asking to learn whether she wants to
try some of this stuff or not. I know I am going through a divorce but I
bet I know more about keeping a relationship going than she does. I hope
this does not piss her off as I do like her comment just would like to
understand what she wants from her time here. If I had a mate I would
not be here. I would be exploring the notions I wanted to with them and
those that were truely out of the question(rimming) would be left out.
Every couple is different and with different people you end up doing
different things with sexually.

i think all woman/men who are married and on sites like this should be
ashamed of themselves. what is going wrong now days with marriage is a
wonder to me. No body is serious any more about being commited to the
person you are with. How can you say you love someone and then a few
years down the road you dont any more, what happens to that
relationship? One day you love them the next day you dont, that doesnt
make since, maybe you realy didnt love that person to begin with?

let's just hope the sex was good while it lasted.

BRAINS BELOW THE BELT STEVE?? HAHA I THINK ITS FUNNY HOW PEOPLE JUST GO
OFF THE SUBJECT IN THESE FORUMS,BUT AS FAR AS THE TOPIC IT IS WRONG FOR
MARRIED PEOPLE TO BE ON THESE SITES,HELLO?? WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO
COMMITMENT??

oh god! married woman enjoy adult conversation also you know? its not a
bad thing unless they are on here talking dirty! Im married and im on
here just to talk and here about other peoples ideas and thoughts.

Not sure, I think it makes a difference whether they are trolling the
site looking for attention or companionship (which I find distasteful to
say the least) or whether they are just trying to offer friendly and
helpful advice, as someone who has "been there."

If you have a problem with it, merely bypass their posts. You won't be
mislead unless you want to be mislead. Especially if they are upfront
with their marriage status.