Yessuh!

do not understand cheating--
talk to your significant other
tell himm you need the passion and love etc
if he is unable to provide it after the discussion
end the relationship because it is not going to get better
you have to decide on the relationship you have or another
not both

I dont think cheating on your bf........the father of your child......is going to help any. If you feel disconnected, then you should sit him down and talk to him, be honest with him, tell him your having these feelings and if he doesnt do something about your relationship then its time to move on.

you need to get professional help to overcome the issues in your relationship - there are good books out there in the library they are even free. you need to understand the problems in your relationship and work on them.

getting involved with someone else will only be pouring gasoline on the fire.

so - don't break up yet. and don't cheat. seek joint counseling to overcome your problem. if he won't go to joint counseling then go to counseling by yourself to work through these issues.

if it turns out that it is really over, the counseling will help you prepare for that eventuality. if it is salvageable then the counseling will help you both mend.

i sincerely wish you well with your struggle. i'm sure it has been and continues to be a real challenge for you.



maybe someone on here or one of your friends/family will be able to recommend a good contact in your area for assistance.

An excellent amount of great advice. Nothing I can add. Except good luck.

What goes around always comes around. Just remember to treat people the way that you yourself would want to be treated. It will come back to you. Karma does exist! Good luck to you!