There's no luck in hard labor. it's just life.

Good luck anyway.

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Good thread cat, thanks for starting it.

Some of the qualities I look for in a man are similar to what others here have said. Although the most important, and what will be the deciding factor for me to commit to a long term relationship, is how in tune that person is with their spiritual path and soul purpose in life.

He needs to have a conscious awareness of his spiritual path and his higher purpose in life, his soul purpose. He also needs to be emotionally and spiritually ready to embrace his path, if he has not done so already. And it needs to resonate with mine, or compliment it in such a way that it serves the higher purpose each of us came here for.

And that's why I'm still single, because I could only have a relationship with a woman who follows her path and that's not easy to find especially one who compliments and can accept me .

Haha, there's been many times when I've ignored my path for the sake of romance. I'm very much a romantic at heart and when that good old heart chakra opens, holy cow, what a wonderful feeling. But it always ends the same, never quite works out and hearts are broken.

I've just recently come to terms with accepting that relationships that operate on a lower frequency/vibration no longer serve a purpose in my life and don't work anymore. Nor do I want that just for the sake of that oh so wonderful, short lived, feeling anymore. This awareness and level of acceptance has brought me to where I am today... ready to embrace my path and soul purpose in life.

Perhaps someday someone will show up and we'll get to walk together, perhaps not. Either way, there's much work to do. So if he's out there, he better hurry up or else he's gonna have a whole lot of catching up to do. Unless of course he's waiting for me to catch up, haha.

Keep being true to yourself Seamus... it will be worth it in the end, or the beginning.

Thanks River .

You're welcome Seamus

hi how r u dear r u married

Liik at Equity, patiently minded which is the key to the game of success

Until you know what love entails. you can't love genuinely. Many are in love with different motives but I think love is sacrifice, you love at best and at worst .if you claim you love me at best and back out worst that means you have not love, Christ died for us while we are yet sinners to show us the extent of love.

Nice to hear from you, River.

I follow everything I like, being alone.

Thanks cat, I hope all is well with you.

once you are a grown up and you know what you are looking for then it will be easy to decide . the most important thing to look for is honesty

I believe it's growing together, basic qualities are the same for the majority of people, we search for. It's having enough charisma in each area of one's self which the other finds attractive and interesting over time. Both people being able to adapted to the changes individually and in there partners. It seems as we age people become more reluctant to enter into relationships even though we search for someone.


There were a lot of good points posted already and there's a magical sequence which brings two individuals together. People seem afraid to fight through the difficult times in life.

Married?

I don't do that anymore.
I live moment to moment and time with them just builds up in the past. The future is not certain.
You can't plan for something with an unknowable outcome.
You take it as it is.

As long as it is a favorable relationship it continues.
When it is no longer favorable, accept it will end.
Hanging on when you shouldn't doesn't work as expected.
Just because it no longer works doesn't mean you have to hurt them.

I am looking for long term relationship to settle with them we both can talk ifu wish

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