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Topic: HOW DO I SAY GOOD BYE
Jam1e's photo
Sun 12/23/07 10:18 PM
hey brother, tell her the truth,how you feel,then see her reaction,if theres love there you should care if not just tell her your not happy,life sucks if your not happy!

dartdog_64's photo
Sun 12/23/07 11:01 PM
just tell her to hit the road..

SHAMELESS_42's photo
Sun 12/23/07 11:07 PM
the men in the little white coats are comming to takje her away .. he he ha ha ho ho

Jeepinfool's photo
Mon 12/24/07 12:53 AM
Edited by Jeepinfool on Mon 12/24/07 12:56 AM
i had to explain to someone on a different site what to do, because she had the same problem with a guy, he would threaten to kill himself and what not, and this is what i told her...

"he won't do it, because people like that are too afraid of death, and that he is looking to keep you trapped in a never ending cycle of chaos, and that he will get to the point were he will start threatening you and by that time it will have been too late to get out, these people have serious issues that you can not help them out with, your presence is clouding their judgement and making it hard for them to deal with themselves, and foremost your safety and livelihood could very well be in jeopardy."

now i told her that and she did it and it was hard and for awhile very scary, because he switched gears and wasn't threatening to kill himself now, instead he started threatening her. now she is free of this guy and very happy now, and i feel good about my advice, and would encourage anyone who has the same problem to do just this

believe me it will be more hard on you than it will be for them, they are not thinking clearly, were as you are, so remember that they are not thinking about you or your feelings, its all about them right now, so be careful....

Rick1980's photo
Mon 12/24/07 01:20 AM

i was seeing a guy this summer, and he got drunk, and called me a c*nt. I was pissed, so I tired to leave. he said if i left he was going to go jump off the dam into the river. calling his bluff, i offered to drive him down there myself since it was about a half mile walk.

it still worries you that they are for real, but most are not and just looking for attention. if you think she is serious, call the cops and tell them she is suicidal, they can keep her for 24 hours for an evaluation.


LOL, your a nice one... You single? LOL drinker

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