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Topic: How do you project the "right vibe"?
AaronZ's photo
Sat 12/22/07 07:43 PM

I'm generally very shy in person. Guys don't usually speak to me at all unless I already know them, and by then they have crossed over into that friend zone. I'm not sure how to get them out of the friend zone, I just know that you should probably act before they get there. It's harder to do when you're shy, but if you want it bad enough....flowerforyou


No! do not "act on before they get there"..., you will never find out if you have a friendship first after this fact, but only before. Here it is broken down

You are wanting sex, You are looking for Friendship, You are looking for both, this is love, ask yourself what do you want?. Then go do this, it is your life and you should live it the way you want (.)


desdemona47's photo
Sat 12/22/07 10:18 PM
Thanks to everyone that jumped in-I guess it's just a matter of overcoming that natural inclination to clam up... ^_^;;; It's harder to do than to know, but it's just something to work on.

TheCaptain's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:57 AM
My only advice is never to tell a guy that "you are like a brother to me". It will only turn into a "frienship" after that.

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Sun 12/23/07 08:07 AM
"just being" that's the right Vibe

AaronZ's photo
Sun 12/23/07 03:51 PM

"just being" that's the right Vibe


Eloquently put, is it not strange that the more we complicate the answer it becomes more clear, simplify man just simplify.

Just B


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