I don't see any problem in intimacy , as it add desires and increase trust. Loyalty pays..

true

You should probably have trust before you have intimacy.

How are you defining "intimacy?"
I mean some people put on their profile (or used to) that they're seeking an "intimate encounter." Which was just "I want to have sex right now."

And there are different levels of "intimacy" if you aren't specifically referring to just sex.
Like a first date with a complete stranger, intimacy can be set by mood, environment, situational, external.

Or just sitting on the couch in the middle of the day with someone you've developed a relationship with. You can "feel" a sense of intimacy towards someone, or to each other.

So...I don't really know what you don't see any problem with.
Are you referring to, or do you mean, attempting to manipulate someone into feeling a sense of intimacy towards you for ulterior motives?

It's not that you feel "intimacy" so much that you want them to feel "intimacy" and therefore reward you with some behavior or feeling?
Like "I made you feel (x) way, therefore you should behave (y) way?"
Or "I did (x) in order to get them to feel (y), I see my motives as altruistic, so if they don't behave/feel the way I think they should, then they're the bad guy, I see no problem with my attempts to force feelings of intimacy?"


Or it can be based on desires and trust, without really adding to them.

It can also be based on a false desire and false sense of trust.


So do the slots in Vegas, occasionally.
But what do they pay...what if it pays you something other than what you expect?

Just as profiles with no pic generate mistrust and suspicion

trust is the most expensive thing

Intimacy can also be expensive even long after the act

True dat

You are right

Gosh I know, doesn't that just
chap your hide?