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Getting married...
I'm not old enough to hear that kinda language. |
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Never married! Had some LTR's but never the big M. Unlike most guy's my age I don't have 3 or 4 ex wives and 7 or 8 kids I'm ignoring out there. I have one (1) child, my daughter who will be 16 in Nov, her mother and I were together for about 17 years. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I get the stark impression you are passing judgment on certain people. However, you could just as easily be judged for your decision, which was raising a child with a woman to whom you were not married. Many people would frown upon that. God forbid you had two separate homes. More judgment there (not from me). I.e., you're making yourself look high and mighty, whether intentional or not. Just some food for thought... You're going to put whatever spin on it what you think you know of my life you desire. God only knows that we were the rarity having a child out of wedlock but we both believe(d) that involving the government had no bearing on our commitments. "WE WERE TOGETHER FOR 17 YEARS" Does not mean two separate homes. I'm not "high and mighty" but what I am is disgusted with men who produce children they have none or very little to do with after the fact. Personally I don't understand how they can do it. I've seen far too much of that which is the point I tried to make by purposely exaggerating the multiple mothers and children. My daughter is my only child and anyone who knows anything about me (including some folks here since I've been here two years today) knows that my number one goal in life is to be the best daddy I can be. If you asked anyone who truly does know me they would tell you as they have me that I'm achieving that goal. I believe I'll leave the "high and mighty" to you and some food for thought............some people (not me) tend to not be favorably impressed with others who rarely miss a chance to pass judgement on others at every opportunity. Whoa! I was not judging at all! I simply wanted your feedback on what I was perceiving. I know perceptions are not necessarily reality. Like I said, "correct me if I'm wrong." I am truly sorry for having struck a nerve or two. That was not my intention at all. :( :( :( Again, my apologies for having come across this way. |
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hello everyone how you are today
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hello everyone how you are today 
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I'd get married once I find that person that display the qualities I'm looking for age dosen't matter it's the heart and personality that counts...
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I answered you're questioning however I've never gotten married reason I take time to know a person, Always spend a lot of time with the person before jumping into marriage
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I figure that many on here are divorced or widow/widower. What age did you get married? I'm just curious to see how different my path was. Thanks everyone. Husband and wife relationships are like the relationship of Tom and Jerry. Though they are teasing and fighting, but can’t live without each other I'm single never married still searching right person |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Tue 08/25/20 11:18 AM
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I hear it is supposedly a grand thing to have when you desire it. But then when you have haves it, you haves divorces before you kills each other.
I was going to get married with the mother of our daughter. Some where far far away from her parents who didn't approve of our union. But before we could tie the proverbial knot, she was killed by a drunk driver, on an isolated location where both wrecks were found partially burned to ashes, with partially burned to ashes human remains of both drivers. It kills me to think that she suffered before she actually died. But in the years since, I have not found any one - simply decent on their own merits, to want to marry. There are just too many moochers, users, superficial pretentious "people" that are enamored with the thing they see in a mirror. |
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Otaku, sorry for your loss.
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