Topic: My Christmas Eve
Tobias1540's photo
Tue 12/25/07 06:44 PM
Ok so at 1am on the 24th I am talking to a girl over txting that I met on this site and went out with on one date. Well we were talking and I told her how I was thinking about how i wasn't going to have a g/f for the holiday season, and then said but atleast I will get to see you again. Now I say this because after the date she told me to call her when I get back, and the date lasted like 3 hours. Well then she told me that she was too much for me to handle. She clarified saying that we were in different places citing that I am not screwed up enough to relate to her as my parents are not divorced and I have not gone through enough conflict in my life. How she knows this i don't know seeing as we had only been on one date. How I hate dating.

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Tue 12/25/07 06:45 PM
Pretty rough. Well, unfortunately that's life things worse then this happen everyday. You're just gonna have to brush this off as a learning experience forget her and move on not much else you can do.

KELLYLS30's photo
Tue 12/25/07 06:47 PM
sounds to me like she is screwed up and just making excuses and you dont need that......there are plenty more women out there

quarrrylife's photo
Tue 12/25/07 06:48 PM
wow , that bites , never had someone not want to see me cause I was not screwed up enough, I usually nip that right in the bud. bigsmile

Tobias1540's photo
Tue 12/25/07 06:50 PM
Thats not all that happened that day either though the other is job related and we don't need to go into that lol.

I know how crazy is it that you are broken up with because you are too normal lol. Though anyone who knows me for more then a couple days nows how crazy I am lol.

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Tue 12/25/07 06:52 PM
Edited by whatupgangsta on Tue 12/25/07 06:53 PM
I had someone I went on a date once the date was great and she never mentioned anything bad on the date, next thing I knew she said it wasn't right. Girls never seem to bring their intentions in right away

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Tue 12/25/07 07:46 PM

Ok so at 1am on the 24th I am talking to a girl over txting that I met on this site and went out with on one date. Well we were talking and I told her how I was thinking about how i wasn't going to have a g/f for the holiday season, and then said but atleast I will get to see you again. Now I say this because after the date she told me to call her when I get back, and the date lasted like 3 hours. Well then she told me that she was too much for me to handle. She clarified saying that we were in different places citing that I am not screwed up enough to relate to her as my parents are not divorced and I have not gone through enough conflict in my life. How she knows this i don't know seeing as we had only been on one date. How I hate dating.


I don't know, but anyone who is wishing you were more screwed up as a means to you being better able to relate as opposed to be thankful that you are not, so that she might grow, is sounding some pretty loud alarms. When I wanted to learn martial arts, I went to someone who know how to do and teach. I wouldn't have gone in and said, "Hey, you aren't weak and unskilled enough to understand me so I'm gone."

Good luck man.

-Drew

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Tue 12/25/07 08:25 PM
Women are like employers each date is like an interview they don't want conflict so they won't say a word about something being wrong on the date they usually tell yeah your not getting the position on A Friday when your thinking things went well. I haven't crashed and burned alot as I normally can tell if something is going well and if it's not I'm the one to break it off before they have the chance to. LOL, I always want the upper hand...

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Tue 12/25/07 08:27 PM
isn't it funny when a girl goes far with you on a first date (further then make out) then she says she just wants to be friends?