i was reading a post and something reminded me of this....i was working 2 jobs and a new guy, who had been in the states 2 years from africa and yes he was black and about 30...i had only worked a few shifts with him when he told me a story...said he was dating a fellow student and liked her and she liked him but it didn't work out i forgot why...her mom worked at the school somewhere and he got introduced by the daughter....he started dating the mom around 40...the husband found out and told him to stop dating her or he would kill him...

a few weeks later a detective approached all the staff that had worked with him...he came to me and i told him the story...he seemed disinterested...he was found in his car in the middle of nowhere shot i think...i read the original article before the interview...maybe the guy was blowing me off in case there was reward money but he a white guy...seemed not to care about what i told him..i was working 2 jobs and married at the time and put it out of my mind....

seems to me he might of told me that in case the guy followed through....

outside of their marriage, true dat...

everyone has the right to have a second chance

That's really nothing new . You read it on yahoo news all the time. Better weird story would be if the married guy joined the party. Just saying .

It's just confusing.

another true story...my ex bought her first gun and took it to the range and tried it out and was very excited, a 38 special blued. she decides to go to bank afterward...she thinks she knows the lady teller a bit so confides " i have a gun" i see the lady is nervous and my ex doesn't get it...the teller is getting a bag and trying not to panic...i lean over and say , no she just bought a gun and is excited...the teller still not getting it...it's in her car in the trunk, finally relaxes and says, ok let's start over, what do you want, ex-i have my slip right here i am making a small withdrawal from my account...relief ensues...

Not while you are still involved with the 'first chance'...