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Topic: Loving someone from a distance
shakes-beard Joined Thu 03/18/21 Posts: 623	Wed 04/07/21 02:35 PM
Completely stupid.Tried many times ..got betrayed many times. I feel the same way, I tried to love angelina jolie from a distance many times, and I was betrayed when she got that restraining order against me You're not alone bruv

Royaloo Joined Wed 04/07/21 Posts: 1	Wed 04/07/21 02:42 PM
Love is nicedistance is nothing

Cliff Joined Thu 03/04/21 Posts: 2	Thu 04/08/21 04:07 AM
Nice

Leo Joined Mon 03/15/21 Posts: 31	Thu 04/08/21 11:15 AM
Tried twice; failed twice. As much as I/we cared, neither of us were in a position to move. Therefore, am sticking to homeward bound and will take my chances there. I do admit I do fancy some from afar; I have to be realistic in what I can offer. For now it but only an open ear and a kind word of friendship to someone afar.

Ajay Joined Mon 04/19/21 Posts: 1	Wed 04/21/21 03:28 AM
hiii

Unknow Joined Fri 03/27/20 Posts: 1	Wed 04/21/21 06:22 PM
Love is nicedistance is nothing that's true..love is sweet

yoda minch Joined Wed 09/09/20 Posts: 58	Wed 04/21/21 06:39 PM
This might work only if one of you is ready to move,otherwise it will be a hard relationship

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Wed 04/21/21 07:08 PM
I'm shocked by all of the negativity expressed in this thread. Shocked, I tell ya! It's like somebody shat out a giant negativity turd.

Kim Joined Sun 10/08/17 Posts: 7	Sat 04/24/21 10:06 AM
It's too romantic,while loyalty & trust both are established with proven mutual understanding.

Anita Joined Sun 04/25/21 Posts: 1	Sun 04/25/21 09:25 PM
I agree! If you want a lasting sustainable relationship, both need to be proactive in eliminating the distance. One needs to be willing to relocate, and visiting each other as much as possible is vital. Talking frequently on the phone and/or video chatting is also important, especially if finances prevent you from frequent visiting. Even if you prefer to keep it long distance, pretty much like having a holiday love affair, it's likely to fade away eventually. It's in our human nature to bond with others, the distance prevents that and most, especially women, would eventually yearn to have someone a little closer to home. I really agreed. omg I had broke up with my bf today. it's all caused by covid

Naveen Joined Tue 04/13/21 Posts: 3	Sun 04/25/21 09:30 PM
I once was so stupid, I literally belive her so much it made me broken when she cheated on long distance, that was my first love ,how can she do that to me

Aimee Joined Sat 04/24/21 Posts: 1	Sun 04/25/21 09:52 PM
everything here is negative .then y are you in this site then ..find someone near you if you think long distance won't work

Naveen Joined Tue 04/13/21 Posts: 3	Sun 04/25/21 10:12 PM
everything here is negative .then y are you in this site then ..find someone near you if you think long distance won't work once negative is not always be like that right , try to get a positive vibes if there any !!

James Joined Fri 04/16/21 Posts: 1	Mon 04/26/21 06:11 AM
Interesting...two people can be in the same bed and be on different planets... being close and being near don't mean the same thing...in my opinion a ruler or tape measure has never been the number one deciding factor for me... just sharing my personal experience... it's very possible. I need one

Rhonah Joined Thu 02/04/21 Posts: 4	Mon 04/26/21 03:44 PM
If you haven't met in real life I agree it's fruitless, if you have met in real life then you need a plan that will bring you together in the future, something you can both work towards. To just continue a long distance relationship without a plan is doomed to failure in my opinion. try it again......won't disappoint

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 896	Tue 04/27/21 03:44 AM
It definitely works in the beginning. But then you need to be in the same physical space to give it a shape. Can't live and die poles apart and say that it was a long distance relationship!

Jas Joined Sat 06/05/21 Posts: 6	Sat 06/05/21 12:19 PM
I just got out of a almost 2 year long distance relationship. We visited each other but once the 3rd wave of covid hit and borders closed up, we couldn’t be with each other we started drifting apart.

Rehanmanzr Joined Wed 11/30/16 Posts: 7	Sat 06/05/21 08:24 PM
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Unknow Joined Wed 05/20/20 Posts: 23	Sun 06/06/21 05:57 AM
Like any relationship it takes work. It is doable. One of my greatest loves was long distance. It lasted until she passed away. We chatted and created an online life. Use your mind. Express yourself openly.

SWM Joined Sun 07/28/19 Posts: 285	Mon 06/07/21 11:26 PM
I am in kinda one right now. She is in the Philippines. We talk when we can. She Has NOT and say Will NOT ask me for Money to get here and is Working her butt off to Save it all herself to get here. Then once here, work her Butt off to Save enough to bring here two daughters here. Communication is a bit bothersome as the language barrier is a bit strong so she don't get my jokes. I even tell her I will try to type slower so it's easier for her to read. It's going well but she does get jealous too easily. She fully understand if I meet someone more local to me I would have to end it with her but it's not looking good meeting "Local" Females, specially here on this site.. She sent the required Proof I ask every female here that contacts me or I contact. Can't say what it is or it will get deleted.. Nothing Naughty but it is something that can not be Faked. She was Happy to send it. Only then did I go Offsite with her. She would even be okay with me living over there with her, because even with my Small Income, I could Live VARY Well over there. She pays like 1850 a month for Rent which works out to be like 185US.. She said I could build a House with what I use to pay for Rent here.. 350US a month. Only thing stopping me from Moving there right now is My Dog is too Old to travel, it would cost between 3600-5000US to get there and Not sure if I could still get my Medications from the VA sent there. Oh, Plus all the Scamdemic Stuff going on..