I'm nervous, scared and everything else that comes with this step. Any suggestions?

every ''LIFE STYLE '' Has its own '' good bad and ugly ''......a

lot of women want a guy who will make her want's his want's, her

needs his need's and love her for ever and ever no matter what. and

be able to emotional communicate with him like she does with her

best girl friend,,,, the TRUTH IS IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN....PART OF

THE PROBLEM IS ''MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT SAME'' OUR BODY'S ARE NOT

THE SAME, WE ARE NOT TRAINED THE SAME, WE DO NOT TAKE IN INFO THE

SAME THEN WE PROCESS IT DIFFERENT. WE ARE NOT BEING TAUGHT IN

FAMILIES AND SCHOOLS THE SOCIAL SKILLS NEEDED TO GET LEARN ABOUT

OURSELVES AND OTHERS.....WE ARE TAUGHT MONOLOGUE INSTEAD OF

DIALOGUE. WHAT WE REALLY NEED IS TO LISTEN AND SEE THE SENSE

OTHERS ARE

MAKING TO THEMSELVES.....MOST CASES ITS TWO PEOPLE TALKING AND NO

ONE LISTENING.....GOOD LUCK.....P.S. WHEN BOTH PEOPLE COMMIT TO

WORK THOUGH THE ISSUE'S AND DO IT THAT'S WHERE REAL LOVE CAN BE

FOUND......

I SAID WHAT I SAID BECAUSE ALL MODERN CULTURES AND SEX'S PLAY THE

SAME DRAMA GAMES WITH EACH OTHER, FOR EXAMPLE WOODEN LEG, POOR ME,

AIN'T IT AWFUL, AND ALCOHOLIC FOR A FEW......AND THEY DO IT FOR TWO

REASON'S FIRST IS TO RECYCLE FAVORITE FEELINGS , THE OTHER IS TO

VALIDATE THERE BELIEF SYSTEM ABOUT THERE SELF ESTEEM AND THE ESTEEM

THEY HAVE FOR OTHERS....THAT EXPLAINS WHY PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY DO.

SOME GAMES ARE PLAYED RATHER QUICK, OTHERS CAN TAKE YEARS TO PLAY

OUT......

Since you're married if you're just looking for a quick hook-up, I'd suggest a site that's more geared to that kind of thing.

If you're serious, and you're husband don't care, I'd suggest going someplace where lesbians hang out, take it slow, and see if you're really interested in that lifestyle.

AMEN.....

u r freedom ,,why r u nervous? everything is fair