It’s hard enough dating in this era on these apps but to be 61 snd live in a rural area. That’s a big challenge. I’m really tired of the fake people and the men that want money, gift cards, things for thier kids, cell phones, etc,
Just wish to find a man that Is a down home kinda guy that comes from the area. I can’t understand the heavy accents on some of these men and I prefer a man close to Breckenridge MN or Fargo ND.

Seems to me you might have better luck if you focus on physical rather than virtual.

Using online dating apps only really works when your search area has a lot of people using that app which fit your preferences.
Being rural and specific lowers your chances on finding someone.
Those you do find are likely to not be who you are looking for.

In our age range, in a limited population area, chances of someone actually meeting your expectations, who is local and available, is slim online.

Not because they don't exist but because they do not use online apps for dating or if they do, they do not use Mingle 2.

Additionally, of those who do, only a few might fill out their profile effectively. You likely pass by matches because their profile is incomplete or doesn't match your expectations exactly.

You can do demographic searches online to figure out the ratio of available candidates in your area. You look for age ranges per household, male to female ratios and median income and use that info to decipher possible match potential.

I believe your best chance for success will be in personally and physically putting yourself out there at various places of interest for your target age group.

You're more likely to find success the old way than online. The grocery store, the gas station or a local club.
Also, don't ignore children and grandchildren's parents who may be available. See if you can get to know them and see if there might be a connection or perhaps they may have a friend looking for someone just like you.

In most cases you must first be a friend to have a meaningful relationship. Many people have problems with online dating because they expect to find love online. Online dating is only meant to break the ice, its up to physical presence to warm the furnace of love.

Stick with what you know.
Good luck...

It seems that single women seldom put themselves out there in public where others can meet them. Usually when they do it is part of a larger group. If you are part of that larger group, most others are not going to attempt to get to meet you! If you are looking for a man with certain characteristics, you need to be visiting where he will most likely be.

My goodness Louise, I have never been contacted by men wanting the things you say you have experienced! Sorry that it has happened to you. Yep online dating can be very frustrating at any age I think, I mean there are a lot of younger people on these sites, as well. However, it does seem to get more difficult I've found the older I get. Go figure. Just gotta do what we think works for us and just...keep on, keepin' on.

I sincerely wish you all the best in finding your happy ending.