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why do most guys only want to sleep with me...and not date me....????? Can anyone answer that??what happend to the old fashioned days....they didnt have friends with benefits....and i dont want to have them either....sometimes i wish i was born in the 60's....where guys opend the door for you and did all those sweet things...and everything wasnt always about sex....
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that still happens, but your still young and got plenty of time to find those guys.
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Everything always resolves around sex, it just does. You just have to scope out the men that does not ONLY want that. Believe me it is not that easy.
Good luck in finding a man that will be committed to you as you can be to him.... |
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cuz theyre ****ing assholes.
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the more things change the more they stay the same................
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god, I hate guys like that! just tell them that you want a relationship first!
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why do most guys only want to sleep with me...and not date me....????? Can anyone answer that??what happend to the old fashioned days....they didnt have friends with benefits....and i dont want to have them either....sometimes i wish i was born in the 60's....where guys opend the door for you and did all those sweet things...and everything wasnt always about sex.... 
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i think its cause most of us suck lol
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Not all guys are like that, certain ones are "pigs". They make decent guys look bad because women think the decent guys want the same thing. Yeah, you just haven't found the right one. Also, are you giving them mixed messages?
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I agree with Puffins, you just haven't came across the right guy yet, but in time you will
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demand more and you will get it. if there not right cut them loos quit being so nice you deserv more. good luck
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Sun 12/30/07 08:56 PM
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people are sexual animals. it was the same in the 60s. just the consequences were not potentially life threatening. before my time. however, a real gentleman would love to date you and spend time with you too. the best relationships are never solely about sex. find a man who will appreciate all of you. he will be a man worthy of reciprocal appreciation. and your affection.
 i always opened doors and i still do. |
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 I was born in 1961 and there are very few men that have opened doors, for years, now. The best way to eliminate a man is to say no if he brings up anything about sex. (First interrogate him and that may scare him bad enough to leave.) Techniques learned over the years are very helpful when dealing with some morons out there.
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the ones who do want that, blow them off b/c obviously those aren't for you and god will show you the way no need to worry be happy, i do know how you feel it will get better
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I always open doors for ladies... as a matter of fact im that guy always stuck holding the door for everyone. Not all guys are the same. Keep lookin
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well there are guys like that around, just have to find them. I am one of those guys, but I don't get many women who are interested in me. I would rather get to know someone as a real, intimate, best friend than to just go and sleep with her. These guys may appear slightly "nerdy" at a distance. I think the way the mating/dating game was designed, the girls are attracted to the "bad" boys, and the "nice guys" like me never get any play.
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no i dont give mixed messages....its not just here in fargo it happens...it happens on here too...and it even says in my about me that im looking for a relationship not friends with benefits...
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I know how u feel. The only thing I have found that works is being honest with them. If they can't accept the fact that you would preferr to wait untill your in a commotted relationship before you sleep with a guy, They aren't worth your time. Their are gentlamen still out their, but they are hard to find. Your a beutiful young girl, take your time Kayla, you will find the right guy, who will respect you.
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Thats the other thing...people tell me I am beautiful all the time....on here...but in fargo...i never hear that...ever....
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Edited by
theemachine
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Sun 12/30/07 08:54 PM
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cuz theyre ****ing assholes. not all of them are ****ing assholes, some off them are ****ing the front door. |
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