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If they say they want to date others at the same time as dating me, then I interpret that as they have some reservations about a future relationship with me. So why waste my time dating someone whom doesn't really seem to know who and what they want. That's the right attitude. I can only applaud you. From all that I seen, like reading your posts, you seem a very decent fella. And you deserve a decent woman at your side. |
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@ Larsi and duttoneer . Personally , I would not date a man who played the field . The type of man I am attracted to would also appreciate the same level of respect . Deciphering compatibility can take time but I am happy to invest in that process without feeling insecure or fretting about potentially wasted time .
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You are on that all important second date and thinking that this may go somewhere, when in conversation your date tells you they are looking around at the moment, and are currently dating another person as well. They want to date a few people in their search for 'the one' for them, because they need to be sure they don't want to rush, and they hope you are OK with this. Would you accept this and continue dating as you would normally, or would you now see this dating differently than you did before, would you continue dating the person? What would you do? If it was a first date, I'd be okay with it. On a second date, considering both dates went well, I'd be thinking she is just a good conversationalist but indecisive of what she wants. Therefore if a third date has a chance she would have to do some major wooing, planning with a steak dinner + , and flip the cost of it all , without any suggestion on my part in order to regain my interest. |
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