Topic: Is it me?
Troy Frefree's photo
Fri 05/12/23 09:10 PM
Is it me, or do people seem preoccupied with doing something different other than chatting or lasting relationships.

For example: I try texting a message, they ask what am I looking for.

I have to say, I didn't pay a C-note to hook up for the nasty. I am truly trying to find genuine companionship.

no photo
Fri 05/12/23 09:50 PM
Is it me, or do people seem preoccupied with doing something different other than chatting or lasting relationships.

For example: I try texting a message, they ask what am I looking for.

I have to say, I didn't pay a C-note to hook up for the nasty. I am truly trying to find genuine companionship.

What on earth compells you to say that?

Morticia's photo
Fri 05/12/23 10:09 PM
What's wrong with being asked about what you're looking for? People can't read minds, you know.

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Fri 05/12/23 10:29 PM
What on earth compells you to say that?

Maybe the answer is profiles? if people can be bothered these days.

I think his attitude is the problem, I mean if he's attracting people he doesn't value why not say thanks for the interest, however it's not mutual good luck in your search.

 Ꮢ Ꭷ Ᏸ ɨ Ꮑ's photo
Sat 05/13/23 01:09 AM
Is it me, or do people seem preoccupied with doing something different other than chatting or lasting relationships.

For example: I try texting a message, they ask what am I looking for.

I have to say, I didn't pay a C-note to hook up for the nasty. I am truly trying to find genuine companionship.

That's good, atleast they replied..
Other wise lot folks complaints (NR no response) :wink:

Laska Paul 's photo
Sat 05/13/23 02:19 AM
There are hundreds of questions they will ask you ?
It means "A Test Run" for you . They need a smart answer to the questions asked, within seconds .
If your answer is appropriate , You are under Waiting List .. Thats All !!!

Troy Frefree's photo
Sat 05/13/23 05:00 AM
I am compelled because that is their only reply.

TIME's photo
Sun 05/14/23 05:35 PM
Are People actually finding love here Or we're just here playing match and looking at photos

Rock's photo
Sun 05/14/23 06:01 PM

I am compelled because that is their only reply.


Amongst any setting, did you not notice
the same behaviours in the real world/ offline?

Pull your big girl panties up,
and use better judgement in who/what
you contact.


no photo
Mon 05/15/23 03:57 AM
I am compelled because that is their only reply.



I think you should log off and think about the issues you have with online dating, take a break because clearly it is affecting your attitude or you're just an A hole.


SerenityBreeze's photo
Wed 05/17/23 02:13 PM
I think we're living in tough times for humanity. I notice people I've known for years are short, abrupt and no longer seem to be able to just hang-out and be comfortable in their own skin, there's this distraction and hyper-activity and lack of focus. I don't know, just watching it all and scratching my head too.
I jut try and stay in compassion and neutrality, that seems to work best.