I'm 41 and recently left a 16-year relationship that was toxic and abusive. I’m not interested in drama or attitudes—I’m looking for a woman who is kind, independent, and knows how to appreciate a good man. Someone who is passionate, adventurous in the bedroom, enjoys deep conversations, and values real connection. A woman who speaks her mind, means what she says, and knows how to have fun.

I’ve spent my life taking care of others, often without the same kindness in return. Now, I’m looking for a woman who will take care of me—a breadwinner who doesn’t mind a stay-at-home man. In return, I offer protection, love, deep understanding, two strong shoulders to lean on, two ears to listen, and a mouth and hands that... well, do plenty more than just talk and work. I’ll be your man—loyal, affectionate, and always by your side. Oh, and did I mention I cook? You’re welcome.

If you fit the bill and like what you hear, message me—don’t just leave a comment. And for those quick to judge, remember, we all have our own journeys. Mine has been one of hard work and sacrifice, and now, I know what I deserve. Thanks for understanding and saving your judgments for when you truly know me.