Remember, we all have our own unique experiences in life. We all have our hardships, our struggles, our wins, and our losses in life. I know what I want and want what I want because of my experiences, not despite them. My previous relationship didn't break me. If anything, it made me stronger, but that's not to suggest that I don't carry wear the scars and know the pain. After 16 years of being in a highly abusive and highly toxic relationship, I can, without a doubt, say that I will never settle for less than what I know I deserve. I spent one and a half decades breaking my back, busting my knuckles, and working hard to care for someone I was deeply in love with. My reward came in the form of physical, mental, and emotional abuse. And as a man of principle, I never left her. And maybe my undying devotion and unconditional love are my greatest weaknesses. I just want to be loved and happy. I'm a simple man with simple needs. If you can provide them, you'll NEVER have to wonder if I'm messing around. I'm loyal till the end, and I'll be your ride or die. Treat me like the loving man that I am, and I'll treat you like the queen that you are.
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I'm 41 and recently left a 16-year relationship that was toxic and abusive. I’m not interested in drama or attitudes—I’m looking for a woman who is kind, independent, and knows how to appreciate a good man. Someone who is passionate, adventurous in the bedroom, enjoys deep conversations, and values real connection. A woman who speaks her mind, means what she says, and knows how to have fun.
I’ve spent my life taking care of others, often without the same kindness in return. Now, I’m looking for a woman who will take care of me—a breadwinner who doesn’t mind a stay-at-home man. In return, I offer protection, love, deep understanding, two strong shoulders to lean on, two ears to listen, and a mouth and hands that... well, do plenty more than just talk and work. ![]() If you fit the bill and like what you hear, message me—don’t just leave a comment. And for those quick to judge, remember, we all have our own journeys. Mine has been one of hard work and sacrifice, and now, I know what I deserve. Thanks for understanding and saving your judgments for when you truly know me. |
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