We all need something we can lean on

And I ain`t talking about the picture either

Thanks...Hon

Your very welcome my dear, Glad I could be of assistance

I'll have one.....

Why is it that some of these people don't put in thier profiles exactly what they are looking for, when it comes to these two items. But they wait till after you have invested alot of precious time<<< I call it that at my age>>> going thru the 'get to know you process'. When I look at a profile and see...If you like getting bit by a dog...or like walking on burning coals..I ain't going there, cause personally these are not things I like.. Same for these 2 items. This is like a catch & release program out here and who wants to find out in the end...you are talking to someone that wants to try and change you, and this could have been avoided. I, myself...if I did'nt smoke or drink, I would'nt want someone breaking my stride. It would make it so much easier...Sorry...venting today..
I am a smoker and a drinker too<<<not a drunk>>>

Everybody has a vice. Everybody. If it isn't one thing, it's another. You have to take the good with the bad.

I don't smoke & I only drink occasionally. I didn't address it in my profile because I didn't want to come across as jugmental & peoples drinking/smoking habits differ greatly. So does their honesty about it. I wouldn't mind a polite smoker or a responsable drinker.
Of course if you care about someone you hope they would stop doing something that could harm them, but nagging smokers just seems to make them want to smoke more. I think you have to access each individuals habits. We all do something that could annoy other people.

well, i just quit smoking 2 weeks ago, so i think a smoker would be a bad choice for me just b/c it would be too much temptation. and i dont drink anymore b/c since i had my son, i cant handle my alcohol. lol but i dont care if a guy drinks as long as he is not a lush.