in a relatuionship thats working out and you both live distance from each other who should consider relocating to be with the other ? i know this question will have many differant views but i,d like to hear how some really feel about it

who ever has less to loose and more to gain...

i myself would go to the woman i love ,because most have childern and makes it harder for them to relocate.

Go with your heart.

first, I'd take a week or two vacation with her - rent an apartment or condo for a few days somewhere... if you get along well while living together, then yeah... definitely.

Well from a personal point of view, been talking with mine for 3 months now we talk almost every day he is in Texas I'm in Mass an he is coming here next month just to be with me. an I can't wait.

there are a tremendous amount of factors they may be involved

Income

Housing

Children

My daughter is only 6 miles from me and I know two women that would be a great significant. One in Buffalo, and one in Detroit. I can assure I will never move though because I wont be that far from my daughter....And they have great jobs where they are...so it is what it is

of course relocating children I believe should not happen unless absolutley necassary...

I once moved only an hour away from their dad...otherwise..the man would have to come to me no matter what..or forget it..

at this time...my kids are grown..I am free to be were ever I want..so thats how I came up with my answer....

That pretty much sums it up. I really dont see any need to discuss this any farther.

i would travel to the other side of the world to be with the person i love.you have to live life. do what makes you feel good in life.life is way to short. enjoy it.i t is a blessing to be alive when you wake up in the morning you should thank god for another day that you are alive.

Legally her Mother cant move away from me and thankfully so. That shouldnt even be a right as far as I am concerned.

When my daughter get's older I would consider moving

The one who has less to lose from moving and who can do it most easily; who has least ties to where they live; and whose work is most portable.

Jim519...
First I would never have concidered moving any firther than the hour.We r only at one end of the county..Lower bucks to upper bucks..

My ex never put it in the agreement that I couldn't move anywere...he knew i wouldn't take our boys from him...never..

So ur agreement is great..And yep u need to stick by ur kids..they grow up and then u can do as u wish..

U r a devoted dad..wonderful to see..

How old are ur children?

best choice u will ever make...no regrets...

Well, a woman with kids should not relocate. If she does that, she has disconnected with her own support network and what if something happens? That is always a risk, but with children who are depending on her, I just don't think it is a good idea. Not only is she taking on more risk, she is putting that risk on her children as well.

Well, a woman with kids should not relocate. If she does that, she has disconnected with her own support network and what if something happens? That is always a risk, but with children who are depending on her, I just don't think it is a good idea. Not only is she taking on more risk, she is putting that risk on her children as well.

whoever has the least amount of drama.
who has the most to lose by uprooting ?z

if they're raising kids (male or female) and you aren't-you should go to them.whoever has the better job-a job that could support both of you until the'mover' gets on their feet in a new town.
its really not tough.

The woman would have to come to me. Between school, trying to start my own business, etc., I'd have to throw all of my plans out of the window. I'm not going to completely rebuild my life for something that isn't 100% guaranteed going to work.

but its ok for her to rebuild for something that isn't 100%.


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