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Topic: Does this make me a player!?
pong_sicxs Joined Tue 06/05/07 Posts: 146	Thu 01/17/08 05:43 PM
I been doing alot of dating lately and there is one girl that I've been dating for alittle over a month. During this time I been dating other girls too. We are not officially girlfriend boyfriend yet. She know I date other girls during this time period. She knows that and she said shes fine with it. But now im also dating another different girl for about 2 weeks now. The girl I been dating for a month ask me jokingly, "Have you find yourself a girl yet?" and I said" I been dating this other one girl for about 2 weeks now". She kinda look upset but didn't really say anything else. She said she wanna hang out this weekend and I told her I will be going out with this other girl and will have time for her in between. I feel really bad. I'm still in that mode where I don't want a serious relationship yet. I just wanna see who's out there. iOno what to do! I dont want to hurt anyones feelings.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/17/08 05:44 PM
Are you sleeping with all of them???

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 01/17/08 05:45 PM
Yikes!!

gregory583 Joined Wed 08/29/07 Posts: 526	Thu 01/17/08 05:45 PM
you told truth so live with it truths light of world

steelangel Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 359	Thu 01/17/08 05:45 PM
I take them one at a time at two week intervals. That's the dating part - we can be friends before/after that.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 01/17/08 05:46 PM
I been doing alot of dating lately and there is one girl that I've been dating for alittle over a month. During this time I been dating other girls too. We are not officially girlfriend boyfriend yet. She know I date other girls during this time period. She knows that and she said shes fine with it. But now im also dating another different girl for about 2 weeks now. The girl I been dating for a month ask me jokingly, "Have you find yourself a girl yet?" and I said" I been dating this other one girl for about 2 weeks now". She kinda look upset but didn't really say anything else. She said she wanna hang out this weekend and I told her I will be going out with this other girl and will have time for her in between. I feel really bad. I'm still in that mode where I don't want a serious relationship yet. I just wanna see who's out there. iOno what to do! I dont want to hurt anyones feelings. As long as they know you're not exclusive, there's no problem. She obviously likes you.

pong_sicxs Joined Tue 06/05/07 Posts: 146	Thu 01/17/08 05:46 PM
nope

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Thu 01/17/08 05:47 PM
I been doing alot of dating lately and there is one girl that I've been dating for alittle over a month. During this time I been dating other girls too. We are not officially girlfriend boyfriend yet. She know I date other girls during this time period. She knows that and she said shes fine with it. But now im also dating another different girl for about 2 weeks now. The girl I been dating for a month ask me jokingly, "Have you find yourself a girl yet?" and I said" I been dating this other one girl for about 2 weeks now". She kinda look upset but didn't really say anything else. She said she wanna hang out this weekend and I told her I will be going out with this other girl and will have time for her in between. I feel really bad. I'm still in that mode where I don't want a serious relationship yet. I just wanna see who's out there. iOno what to do! I dont want to hurt anyones feelings. Word of advice. sometime it's not good to be to forward. As long as you being real and letting them know where you stand, then it should be up to them to know if they can deal with it or not. but if you see hurting someone. then why drag it on?

pong_sicxs Joined Tue 06/05/07 Posts: 146	Thu 01/17/08 05:49 PM
I feel really bad because i know she really digs me. I feel more of a friend with her than more than a friend.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/17/08 05:49 PM
I wouldnt date a guy that had all those gfs!!!

pong_sicxs Joined Tue 06/05/07 Posts: 146	Thu 01/17/08 05:50 PM
I been doing alot of dating lately and there is one girl that I've been dating for alittle over a month. During this time I been dating other girls too. We are not officially girlfriend boyfriend yet. She know I date other girls during this time period. She knows that and she said shes fine with it. But now im also dating another different girl for about 2 weeks now. The girl I been dating for a month ask me jokingly, "Have you find yourself a girl yet?" and I said" I been dating this other one girl for about 2 weeks now". She kinda look upset but didn't really say anything else. She said she wanna hang out this weekend and I told her I will be going out with this other girl and will have time for her in between. I feel really bad. I'm still in that mode where I don't want a serious relationship yet. I just wanna see who's out there. iOno what to do! I dont want to hurt anyones feelings. Word of advice. sometime it's not good to be to forward. As long as you being real and letting them know where you stand, then it should be up to them to know if they can deal with it or not. but if you see hurting someone. then why drag it on? It sucks cuz she said she dont mind me dating other girls. She made it like an invitation to "just keep coming back to me"

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/17/08 05:50 PM
I been doing alot of dating lately and there is one girl that I've been dating for alittle over a month. During this time I been dating other girls too. We are not officially girlfriend boyfriend yet. She know I date other girls during this time period. She knows that and she said shes fine with it. But now im also dating another different girl for about 2 weeks now. The girl I been dating for a month ask me jokingly, "Have you find yourself a girl yet?" and I said" I been dating this other one girl for about 2 weeks now". She kinda look upset but didn't really say anything else. She said she wanna hang out this weekend and I told her I will be going out with this other girl and will have time for her in between. I feel really bad. I'm still in that mode where I don't want a serious relationship yet. I just wanna see who's out there. iOno what to do! I dont want to hurt anyones feelings. I know how it is. Its a tough situation. One will have to eventually have to go.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 01/17/08 05:51 PM
You're being honest.. It's up to each of them to accept it or not...

pong_sicxs Joined Tue 06/05/07 Posts: 146	Thu 01/17/08 05:51 PM
I wouldnt date a guy that had all those gfs!!! I made it clear to her that I'm just dating...

NatalieHalla Joined Tue 11/14/06 Posts: 199	Thu 01/17/08 05:51 PM
well if she knows what shes in for then its her fault, some guy told me he was DATING around, i know better then to get into that only cuz its not for me, you showing you care means something but maybe she cant handle that, i dunno.. to each there own.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/17/08 05:52 PM
I been doing alot of dating lately and there is one girl that I've been dating for alittle over a month. During this time I been dating other girls too. We are not officially girlfriend boyfriend yet. She know I date other girls during this time period. She knows that and she said shes fine with it. But now im also dating another different girl for about 2 weeks now. The girl I been dating for a month ask me jokingly, "Have you find yourself a girl yet?" and I said" I been dating this other one girl for about 2 weeks now". She kinda look upset but didn't really say anything else. She said she wanna hang out this weekend and I told her I will be going out with this other girl and will have time for her in between. I feel really bad. I'm still in that mode where I don't want a serious relationship yet. I just wanna see who's out there. iOno what to do! I dont want to hurt anyones feelings. Word of advice. sometime it's not good to be to forward. As long as you being real and letting them know where you stand, then it should be up to them to know if they can deal with it or not. but if you see hurting someone. then why drag it on? It sucks cuz she said she dont mind me dating other girls. She made it like an invitation to "just keep coming back to me" uHHHHHHHHH if a girl says that to you, she obviously has about 4 on the side that YOU have no idea about!!!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 01/17/08 05:52 PM
If you don't want to get into a relationship, stop wasting her time, and let her go. If you want to get into a realtionship, let go of the others, and just be with her.

xander29 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 353	Thu 01/17/08 05:52 PM
jealousy, a girl is gonna get pissed if u are dating other girls besides her even if she doesnt say it. Her not saying anything is proof enough she is not happy about it. You need to make a choice, if you like her then get serious, otherwise let her down easy by telling her you're not ready for something serious. BUT DO NOT DRAG IT OUT, you're only gonna hurt her more the more you wait

pong_sicxs Joined Tue 06/05/07 Posts: 146	Thu 01/17/08 05:53 PM
I been doing alot of dating lately and there is one girl that I've been dating for alittle over a month. During this time I been dating other girls too. We are not officially girlfriend boyfriend yet. She know I date other girls during this time period. She knows that and she said shes fine with it. But now im also dating another different girl for about 2 weeks now. The girl I been dating for a month ask me jokingly, "Have you find yourself a girl yet?" and I said" I been dating this other one girl for about 2 weeks now". She kinda look upset but didn't really say anything else. She said she wanna hang out this weekend and I told her I will be going out with this other girl and will have time for her in between. I feel really bad. I'm still in that mode where I don't want a serious relationship yet. I just wanna see who's out there. iOno what to do! I dont want to hurt anyones feelings. Word of advice. sometime it's not good to be to forward. As long as you being real and letting them know where you stand, then it should be up to them to know if they can deal with it or not. but if you see hurting someone. then why drag it on? It sucks cuz she said she dont mind me dating other girls. She made it like an invitation to "just keep coming back to me" uHHHHHHHHH if a girl says that to you, she obviously has about 4 on the side that YOU have no idea about!!!

pong_sicxs Joined Tue 06/05/07 Posts: 146	Thu 01/17/08 05:55 PM
jealousy, a girl is gonna get pissed if u are dating other girls besides her even if she doesnt say it. Her not saying anything is proof enough she is not happy about it. You need to make a choice, if you like her then get serious, otherwise let her down easy by telling her you're not ready for something serious. BUT DO NOT DRAG IT OUT, you're only gonna hurt her more the more you wait hmmmmm.. Yeah, I don't want to really hurt anybody. I should just tell em off?