i took my old chum fishing hehehe jk

as soon as i have one i'll tell you

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh first love....... Well I cried for about 2 years and then woke up one day and decided I was going to drink a scary amount of booze and party with hot men for the next 20 years......

Just go find the next one that you will soon cry over

Well Lets see, Stayd black out drunk on Southern Comfort for 3 months, When I came out of it I was over 1000 miles from where I lived then I did a year in Iraq with a private security company.

And I'm still not really over her. So I don't know what to tell ya.

Sorry.

Let's see, I guess it would depend on circumstance. I got over my first love partly because of those circumstances, and I was able to see that it just wouldn't work out. Somehow that provided me comfort and forced me to move on.

Now my second love, which I believe has been more of a love than my first, that's a different story. We ended because of distance, with my first we ended because of bad compatibility.

I would say just immerse yourself in the dating world as much as you can. Convince yourself that this sense of autonomy is much better for the time being than being bogged down by something negative.

years of waiting for time to take its medicated effect, a long term relationship with someone else, and many many many flings

I am just gonna say that, you don't "get over" your first love. You learn from it! The great thing is your young and cute so you'll have many experiences to learn from. Then when it come time to be with your true love, you'll be great.

I drank. In fact, I STILL drink! Hmmmm, I guess I'm not the one to get advice from, lol. Movin on....