my favorite bartender, a female is always happy to see me come in......spends time with me in between customers....at times, she ruffles my hair when walking by.......She has a bf, that i have met also........her and I have a good friendship...She is wanting to ride with me when spring gets here........Would it be improper to get her roses on Valentine's Day? Should i keep it at a lower level? I'm kinda confused....She always hugs me when I leave

I wouldn't go with roses personally....

bin there bro, shes taken but unless ya wanna rassle with her other half stay away.!!! jmo

I think you know that answer alredy if she has a BF

Knowing that hse has a boyfriend i think it would be inappropriate to get her flowers but maybe you need to sit down with her and have a little talk cause it seems to me that she thinks of you more than she should.....good luck

keep it low keyed for now,,,,let her make th frist real pass,,,,,an enjoy ur ride this spring

Dude if she has a boyfriend leave it alone! You dont want to piss him off! I think roses for a bartender is not such a good idea,but its only what i think! Let's see what others think

you could buy me some , just kidding

I would keep it on the low.

/roommate is a female bartender

hun it's her job dont let know one no but it brings in better tips

Stay very very far away from that, that's deadly...Keep it at the friend level...WOuld you want that done to you if you were the boyfriend?..

I'm not one to get in between of others, because i have been there..........I do think it should stay at a low key level also........

misty4ran: "hun it's her job dont let know one no but it brings in better tips laugh laugh laugh"

Bingo

would you want some dude giving your Chick Roses for Valentines day

No roses...that gets girls in trouble and screams "cheese". A much better idea is to come across a book or something that you know she'd be into - I'm sure if she's really become a friend you've gotten to know some little things about her. Noticing little things and picking up a random gift because it reminds you of a friend says a lot more, and won't get likely get her in trouble with a boyfriend.


Why aren't finding a single girl anyways? Don't you know bar tending is a people business? I flirt like hell when I'm working...and women come back to me and tip me better - it's my job to make them like coming to see me. Think about it...

xactly.

I sure wouldn't want to screw a good friendship or possibly two if you want to be technical. Made the mistake of arguing with another Aquarius. OMG. To me it was like arguing with myself only more intense. Just when you thought it was safe to go back into the water and there is Jaws to greet you.

I knew it was sorta stupid to ask for opinions when i already knew what my gut was telling me.........She is a really nice friend just the same..........And he is also...........Thanks for keeping me on the straight side............

you tip any bartender well enough they'll show you attention...they know how to work people to get money!
and no no flowers

goood,now go for a long ride