Topic: Single in Tennessee
peppermint10's photo
Sat 02/09/08 09:25 AM

hey i'm single. how are you all? any advice you could give a man thats given up on finding his one and only?



First o all DKW, don't ever give up. The good ones just take longer to find!

sandnpearls's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:55 AM
hi girls, im new on this site to. i am beginning to think the men are either afraid or really dont want to meet anyone, lollaugh

sandnpearls's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:58 AM
hey dkw, dont give up! i thought i would to but i keep on , keepin on.

peppermint10's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:02 PM

hi girls, im new on this site to. i am beginning to think the men are either afraid or really dont want to meet anyone, lollaugh


sandnpearls,I'm beginning to think you're right. I don't think any of us are scary!! :wink:

KELLYLS30's photo
Sun 02/10/08 06:00 PM
the right one will eventually come along....i have had a "thing" going with a guy from AL, though we have never met in person. had many opportunities, but they passed by. never seemed to be the right time for either of us. so we stopped talking for several months. i mean, i figured after 2 years, it was a sign that it was not meant to be.(and we only live 5 hours apart).

we both really care for the other one, and we are willing to work thru the difficulties we would encounter being a interracial couple. his family accepts it, mine dont. but we both believe that true love does not see color or age.

somehow the other day, we ran into each other online. which led to a 7 hour phone call. was the best phone conversation i have had in my life.

we have decided to give it another try and see what happens.

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 08:20 PM
hey everyone

superman7's photo
Tue 02/12/08 08:44 AM
whats up people

Stevo85's photo
Tue 02/12/08 07:28 PM
Hi, Live in Chattanooga, 22. Its hard to find anyone that is interested in you anymore. Anyone from Chattanooga area or close? lol

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Thu 02/14/08 10:25 AM
Well giveing up is about the only option i have left anymore. I'm that depressed and thats just how bad it's been lately. only person i like lives three states away.

peppermint10's photo
Thu 02/14/08 05:07 PM

the right one will eventually come along....i have had a "thing" going with a guy from AL, though we have never met in person. had many opportunities, but they passed by. never seemed to be the right time for either of us. so we stopped talking for several months. i mean, i figured after 2 years, it was a sign that it was not meant to be.(and we only live 5 hours apart).

we both really care for the other one, and we are willing to work thru the difficulties we would encounter being a interracial couple. his family accepts it, mine dont. but we both believe that true love does not see color or age.

somehow the other day, we ran into each other online. which led to a 7 hour phone call. was the best phone conversation i have had in my life.

we have decided to give it another try and see what happens.


Kelly, that's wonderful. I'm really pulling for you. Five hours isn't that far and you have a history together. That makes it even better!

peppermint10's photo
Thu 02/14/08 05:13 PM
DKW, don't you dare give up. Don't let a little distance stop you if you found Ms. Right!

Hello to lonelyman, superman and Steve. In the meantime, the 4 of you need to get yourselves over to the Matchmaking thread and let Ms. Feral know you're ready, willing and able. Tell her I sent you!!

laxviking57's photo
Fri 02/15/08 12:07 PM
I fit into the same catagory down here in memphis

peppermint10's photo
Fri 02/15/08 12:12 PM
Welcome lax. There are plenty of people on this site. Check out the forums, you're sure to find something to interest you.

KELLYLS30's photo
Fri 02/15/08 02:22 PM
thanks peppermint...we talk ever night and complete each other's sentences just as before.....and we always say the same thing at the same time....and we eat the same thing on some days..its hilarious.

because of all of the "coincidences", and how we keep coming back together, we are wondering if we are actually soul mates.

we are hoping he can come up within the next month so we can really meet and see if it's the same in person.

peppermint10's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:03 PM
Kelly,
I believe in soul mates with all my heart. Unfortunately, I left mine behind in Pa when I moved. Circumstances will keep him there for a long time. We are convinced we have been together before and will be again in the next life!

Don't you let anything stop you this time. If it's meant to be, it will be!

KELLYLS30's photo
Sat 02/16/08 11:50 AM
i believe in soul mates also. i just wonder if he is mine or not. how do you know? we have had unbelievable conversations and have told each other things that nobody else knows. he is an amazing person. and i care for him so deeply.

i am excited to finally have the chance to meet him, but im terrified at the same time. what if this is real. im kinda scared to let myself feel that way again. but im tired of being alone, too.

peppermint10's photo
Sat 02/16/08 01:57 PM
If I had all the answers I wouldn't be alone myself, but I think you just know when it's the right one. But I've been wrong before. I also think if you don't try, you'll spend the rest of your life saying 'what if'. I know you'll do what is right for you.

hazeleyedlady4u's photo
Sun 02/17/08 06:58 AM
Hi from New Johnsonville, TN. I thought i'd found my "one and only" 4 yrs ago, but found out that what seems to be too good to be true, really is!! I've been alone again for nearly a yr now. I haven't given up, but have really stopped "looking" too hard. I told God that "IF" he wants me to have someone, I will let HIM send him to me, or drop him in my lap!! :smile:

peppermint10's photo
Sun 02/17/08 01:15 PM

Hi from New Johnsonville, TN. I thought i'd found my "one and only" 4 yrs ago, but found out that what seems to be too good to be true, really is!! I've been alone again for nearly a yr now. I haven't given up, but have really stopped "looking" too hard. I told God that "IF" he wants me to have someone, I will let HIM send him to me, or drop him in my lap!! :smile:


Hi Hazeleyedlady, I thought I had my 'last love' 4 yrs ago too. Funny how 'too good to be true' usually is, isn't it? I've been alone again for almost a year now too but I'm not ready to give up yet. Discouraged maybe, but not ready to give up! Welcome!

rmgsd's photo
Sun 02/17/08 01:29 PM
well from morristown ,here hello to all from tennessee