I've found we have more in common, and they're more understanding about the difficulties of dating when you have young children. But it's not a requirement.

If I found a man that had children, my one child family would be bigger. And that's icing on the cake!

doesnt really matter to me as long as he can understand that i do have a child, and treats me and my son good

Wow...maybe I should actually write my profile and add the fact that the great wonder has a kiddo.
Might actually get me a date.
Rofl.

Myself it makes no difference if they have kids or not as long as they don't want to have anymore I'm fine with it.

Besides you can actually tell a lot about a guy that has kids with the way he treats them and spends time with them.

Myself if the guy had to break a date to either be with one of his kids due to sick or spend quality time with them that would not bother me a bit I would in fact encourage it.

What gets me is these men who are looking for a baby mama!!!

Example........Man: I have 6 children all under the age of 6 and Im looking for a woman who will cook, clean and wipe my kids faces while I work in the steel mill!!!

I think it depends on the female. As you noticed most of the single Mom's would probably want a single father over just a single man. Proven history of maturity in the parenting department, and also knows what it's like to try and date as a parent. How children are usually your first priority, and the amount of responsibility that comes with being a parent.

But once more it boils down to personal prference, some women do and some do. Just like there are some single dads out there that like dating single woment and others would rather not!

I hear ya on that one my kids are grown so not looking to be someone kids mommy. So if that is all they are looking for pass me up.

It would not bother me to have kids around again since mine are grown but not looking for someone to be with me for only that reason.