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Take this how ever you want to  This makes me  I see this alot on this site and it's something i have no respect for when a Man/Women is trying to date someone knowing there taken. Where is the respect in this?If the Man/Women had respect for the person there interested in and knowing there in a relationship. They leave that situation alones untill the person has delt with it. I think it's messed up that someone put themselves in between a relationship and that it's self well cause the person thats in the relationship to make uncertain choices and it's not fair to the third party. If you respect the person then you will leave them to make there own choices. You want to know what respect is? Last night I was at a friends house and enjoying a bomb fair and a couple drinks. There this girl that he has known for a few years and been wanting the friendship to become more but doesn't know how she feels about him, if it would go further or not. Long story, but I was getting at is. I showed up there and after talking to her for a bit and even he noticed and we talked aboiut it. I could of if I really wanted to, had sex with her. Did I flirt with her, NO did I lead the conversation that way, No. What i'm getting at, is i gave my friend the respect of being a friend and i could of done what some of his so call friends have done already. I have no interest in putting myself in between any relationshp. No matter if the person wants me or not. So before you make an choices if your in this situation. Think about if your the third party and how would deal knowing someone is moving on you othere half   ...but then again....i dont read ALL posts..sorry to hear about this Shadow! There is nothing to be sorry about  it's part of life and how we grow in it...
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Totally agree. Thanks for making a good case. That's 2 votes proving that not all guys are a...holes.
Take this how ever you want to This makes me I see this alot on this site and it's something i have no respect for when a Man/Women is trying to date someone knowing there taken. Where is the respect in this?If the Man/Women had respect for the person there interested in and knowing there in a relationship. They leave that situation alones untill the person has delt with it. I think it's messed up that someone put themselves in between a relationship and that it's self well cause the person thats in the relationship to make uncertain choices and it's not fair to the third party. If you respect the person then you will leave them to make there own choices. You want to know what respect is? Last night I was at a friends house and enjoying a bomb fair and a couple drinks. There this girl that he has known for a few years and been wanting the friendship to become more but doesn't know how she feels about him, if it would go further or not. Long story, but I was getting at is. I showed up there and after talking to her for a bit and even he noticed and we talked aboiut it. I could of if I really wanted to, had sex with her. Did I flirt with her, NO did I lead the conversation that way, No. What i'm getting at, is i gave my friend the respect of being a friend and i could of done what some of his so call friends have done already. I have no interest in putting myself in between any relationshp. No matter if the person wants me or not. So before you make an choices if your in this situation. Think about if your the third party and how would deal knowing someone is moving on you othere half |
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Shadow, for this one, I have to totally agree with you on it. Where I come from there's an unspoken rule amognst the guys, you never, ever go after their ex, or who they are with, or who they want to be with, it's just total respect. I never understood why people would do things like that, but I guess to each their own.
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Giving that respect to a friend is somthing they will alway remember and will give you in return. Talking to my friend the other night. he came out latter and told me how he appreciated how I showed him that respect and told me if ever need anything. He would be there no matter what, a drop of a dime.
That kinda of friendship is something you don't pass up |
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Shadow well said.
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I will not try to take someone from who they are with, especially for my own selfish reasons... however if I saw they were in an abusive relationship and needed help, I'd do whatever I could to try to help them, even help them get away if they needed it.
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Edited by
Shaden
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Wed 03/05/08 06:17 AM
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I very much agree!
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I just can't see how people can come on here and post that they are interested in someone that is in a relationship and they want to know if it's ok to **** that up. I mean get real people...
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im too old to jump out windows and dodge shotgun blasts!!!
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Well said, Shadow!
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I just can't see how people can come on here and post that they are interested in someone that is in a relationship and they want to know if it's ok to **** that up. I mean get real people... The problem as I see it shadow is Men will be Men Boys will be boys |
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Shadow, I agree with your OP.
I also feel that some women are just as apt to be dishonorable as some men when it comes to interfering in established, monogamous relationships. It is despicable. Unfortunately, the world is not fair and the world has a lot of evil in it, too. However, the partner in the primary couple also has a responsibility to fend off any possible flirtations or advances that may threaten that primary relationship, either emotionally or sexually. |
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damn shadow is right!good thing i got friends that would never back-stab me
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Shadow, for this one, I have to totally agree with you on it. Where I come from there's an unspoken rule amognst the guys, you never, ever go after their ex, or who they are with, or who they want to be with, it's just total respect. I never understood why people would do things like that, but I guess to each their own.
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I would never consider a man who had these kinds of ethics and values - who would consider coming between an established couple. It is very distasteful to me.
By the same token, if I was a man, I would never consider a woman who did the same. These are not the kind of people I care to surround myself with. |
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HMmmm.i got to think about this ill let you know....
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