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Topic: Help!
bubblejug6's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:23 PM
So I started dating the guy, not seriously more just fun. However I feel like he doesn't want a serious relationship, but I do. And to add another little layer I know his ex very well. And I know what she has done, which is basically cheat on him every chance she gets. I told him about this tonight. I can't figure out what to do. Do I continue having a somewhat casual relationship or should we just go back to being friends?
I need your input . . . STAT!

Brandon24721's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:26 PM
Find a real man! Your to pretty to go threw that! You can get what you want! Just come to texas and see me!

bubblejug6's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:28 PM
Thats really sweet. But I am about to breaking point. I just want to cut all guys off haha

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Sun 03/09/08 06:28 PM
Are you friends with his ex?

azrae1l's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:31 PM
well what you need to do is talk to him about it, and once thats all out of the way, sneak up behind him, reach between his legs, grab his nuts and pull them back up his ass crack over his back across the top of his head and staple them to his forehead then start screaming in his ears "what the hell is your problem?!?!?!?!"

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:33 PM

So I started dating the guy, not seriously more just fun. However I feel like he doesn't want a serious relationship, but I do. And to add another little layer I know his ex very well. And I know what she has done, which is basically cheat on him every chance she gets. I told him about this tonight. I can't figure out what to do. Do I continue having a somewhat casual relationship or should we just go back to being friends?
This relationship has all the hallmarks for real misery. Trust your instincts and get out of the picture as in yesterday. Surround yourself with happy people not the walking wounded after a messy split and you will be much more likely to find someone that makes the future much brighter.
I need your input . . . STAT!

cdanny47's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:34 PM

Thats really sweet. But I am about to breaking point. I just want to cut all guys off haha
It's to soon and your will just get hurt,,, I won't do it until you know he is over her....

bubblejug6's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:36 PM
I am screwed

azrae1l's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:37 PM
your 19, to hell with it. move on to the next guy.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:38 PM
At your age girl tell them you want there full attention or move on but tell him how you really feel first at least give the guy a chance to know how you feel that is the only right way to do it.bigsmile

Brandon24721's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:39 PM
Just come to texas! You won't have to worrie about no other guys honey!

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:40 PM
Ahh, another teenage problem!!

livelife68's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:45 PM
Don't ya just love all the drama. laugh laugh

bubblejug6's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:45 PM
You know what I might be 19 but even if you are techinacally a teenage it doesn't mean crap. Yes we do still have feelings, serious ones. So don't write it off

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Sun 03/09/08 06:46 PM

So I started dating the guy, not seriously more just fun. However I feel like he doesn't want a serious relationship, but I do. And to add another little layer I know his ex very well. And I know what she has done, which is basically cheat on him every chance she gets. I told him about this tonight. I can't figure out what to do. Do I continue having a somewhat casual relationship or should we just go back to being friends?
I need your input . . . STAT!
OK,,,,,,,,"CLEAR"""""""""""oh sorry, its that word STAT.
damm ,,,,,"CLEAR"""""""" ok, we won't say it anymore.
Now,,,,Hes a party guy and if ya like his sex, then do him, and look around like he is.
If ya want to tell him GOODBYE, do it.
BUT,,,,NOW,,,
If YOU and his ex girlfriend our FRIENDS before you and him got together.....noway noway
Then KNOW that YOU and HIM never should have GOT together.
MANY friends have hurt each other and NOW hate each other over any FRIENDS LOVER!!!

Good luck and just live HAPPY and live to rule YOU.:heart:

Moondark's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:49 PM
It is understandable where he is at right now. But if you try to continue a casual relationship when you want more, you are the one who will get hurt by that.

So just try to be friends if you can. Or just move one. Since it is really hard to go backwards.

azrae1l's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:50 PM
when i said you were 19 i ment you have plenty of time, and to move on. not that your problems weren't real or whatever...

livelife68's photo
Sun 03/09/08 06:54 PM
on the serious side. It sounds like a lot of trouble to me. If you want to date the guy go for it. But at least talk to him and find out if he wants a serious relationship or not. You make a decision based on what he says if you can live with just a casual relationship then date him. As for his exgirlfriened, I suggest leaving her out of the situation as best you can. Bad mouthing her can lead to a lot of problems. Best wishes.flowerforyou

IpseDixit's photo
Sun 03/09/08 07:43 PM
Quite a gap between your first sentence and the second one. But his minus ("he doesn't") cancels out your plus ("but I do"). Divide that by another minus ("I told") -- leaves you with an answer that is not very positive. Bummer.

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Fri 03/14/08 02:58 AM
Its cool dear. find real man for long relationship. I have just finally found my soul mate.

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