Topic: Trust
Tobias1540's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:21 PM
To me a relationship is based on trust. So why is that people who admitidly have trust issues try to get into a serious relationship?

Now at first I was dumb and thought that after a while i could get her to trust me. But as everyone learns trust issues do not go away when people are in a serious relationship, they are just hidden at first and then eventually sneack back up.

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:22 PM
so very true. you can't change others...only yourself

azrae1l's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:23 PM
so your saying if i have a trust issue i shouldn't be dating? or a serious relationship? just curious here but what about the reason we have trust issues?

i admittedly have trust issues, i've been screwed over, used and cheated on by every girl i've ever dated so yeah i have a little trouble completely trusting women.

so by your logic here i shouldn't date?

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:25 PM
not date...but i do think what he might be saying is must that don't trust aren't honest about it

if i'm in a relationship with someone with trust issues...i'd like to know...that way i am not blind sided wondering what happened

Tobias1540's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:25 PM

so your saying if i have a trust issue i shouldn't be dating? or a serious relationship? just curious here but what about the reason we have trust issues?

i admittedly have trust issues, i've been screwed over, used and cheated on by every girl i've ever dated so yeah i have a little trouble completely trusting women.

so by your logic here i shouldn't date?


Not really, these are the words of the disenfranchised

me2g's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:37 PM
My X wife had some serious trust issues ... they never got better... they just made me miserable... and she had absolutely no reason for not trusting me either... I felt like I was on lock down 24/7

Dragonbite's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:42 PM
Trust is earned,you must know a person awhile before you can truly put your trust in them. that is why parents tell there kids not to talk to strangers. there are a lot of sick people out there