Topic: What puts you off?
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Tue 03/25/08 08:44 AM

From talking to someone on JSH or friending them or emailing them back?


Nothing ... I respond to all the mail I get, AND sometimes we chat for months at a time ...bigsmile
ALtho I do tend to NOT initiate the conversation , as I would never want to lead a woman on ... flowerforyou drinker :wink:

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:48 AM
Figures, I'm outside of Jilly's mileage range! Everything else fits but be a little far away and.............lol

Jillybean31's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:50 AM

Figures, I'm outside of Jilly's mileage range! Everything else fits but be a little far away and.............lol
What can I say Peccy...I like to hold hands and not so much telephones. ohwell

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:51 AM

Figures, I'm outside of Jilly's mileage range! Everything else fits but be a little far away and.............lol


Peccy ~ Hey! C'mon now.. the appropriate response here is to start a poor pity me thread about how the good women are too far away and talk about what a 'nice' guy you are. You really can't let this go with a harmless joke in a post. Really!

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:53 AM


Figures, I'm outside of Jilly's mileage range! Everything else fits but be a little far away and.............lol


Peccy ~ Hey! C'mon now.. the appropriate response here is to start a poor pity me thread about how the good women are too far away and talk about what a 'nice' guy you are. You really can't let this go with a harmless joke in a post. Really!
UUmmmm.........but I'm an ass*ole sometimes lil!

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:53 AM


Figures, I'm outside of Jilly's mileage range! Everything else fits but be a little far away and.............lol
What can I say Peccy...I like to hold hands and not so much telephones. ohwell
For you dear I may move....lol

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:55 AM
Peccy--- the self-proclaimed nice guys usually are... which is my point! laugh

I was certainly not saying you are one of them, though.

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:56 AM

Peccy--- the self-proclaimed nice guys usually are... which is my point! laugh

I was certainly not saying you are one of them, though.
You'd certainly be naive if you were to do so......lol

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:57 AM
I try to keep what few things I am naive about well hidden. It doesn't suit me well. flowerforyou

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:59 AM

I try to keep what few things I am naive about well hidden. It doesn't suit me well. flowerforyou
mine either flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Jillybean31's photo
Tue 03/25/08 08:59 AM
We're straying from the subject line...

So, another thing that annoys me here is when they try to plead their case, claiming that love conquers all...hehehe. Some even claim they can change circumstances they cannot possibly control "for the right woman". What!?! I like a man with goals and aspirations...but common, if you can really part the sea, and move the mountains what the double hockey sticks are you doing here?

Jillybean31's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:01 AM
This is not aimed at you Peccy...just a general thing.

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:02 AM
same thing you are undoubtedly, same thing most of us are....cept for me.....I'm trying to move within 150 miles of Jilly.....any takers?

Jillybean31's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:03 AM

same thing you are undoubtedly, same thing most of us are....cept for me.....I'm trying to move within 150 miles of Jilly.....any takers?

hehehe laugh
someone here is a smart-ass. :tongue:

ccindyct's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:04 AM
I hate when a profile says "Hi to all the honies out there" or something equally lame......don't call me honey or sweetheart, you don't even know me!

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:04 AM


same thing you are undoubtedly, same thing most of us are....cept for me.....I'm trying to move within 150 miles of Jilly.....any takers?

hehehe laugh
someone here is a smart-ass. :tongue:
better than a dumbass..............ohhhh!!!

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:05 AM


same thing you are undoubtedly, same thing most of us are....cept for me.....I'm trying to move within 150 miles of Jilly.....any takers?

hehehe laugh
someone here is a smart-ass. :tongue:


Jilly--- You and Peccy are just meeting? Here is JSH's most inquisitive man! laugh

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:05 AM

I hate when a profile says "Hi to all the honies out there" or something equally lame......don't call me honey or sweetheart, you don't even know me!
How bout "Hot Stuff?"

ccindyct's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:06 AM


I'm bothered by people who do not read my profile and send e-mails in a chatty instant messaging sort of way. I put all the meat and potatoes stuff in the first section of my profile, and some of it in all caps... but it's still not read.

I also get sort of peeved at people who place me on their favorites or send friend requests and I've never heard from them and never do. After anywhere from a week to a month I delete them from my friends list, and I automatically delete them from my favorites once I see it. How can I be a favorite if they don't know me?
exeactly!!!

thanks for summing up my answer for me lil...

i will still generaly respond, and then in like 3 emails they finaly catch on to the 4 kids part of my profile... and then i never hear from them again..
maybe i should respond to their initial email with something like....
did you read the profile.. the part about the single mom of 4.. how bout the part where i work all the time..
its worse now.. my headline states...
"TAKEN <3"
and i still get the "you wanna hook up sometime" emails..
noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway


Sometimes though if I don't have time to email, I'll hit favorite so I can go back to it later....

ccindyct's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:08 AM


Illiteracy.


No doubt on this one.


I agree, if you can't spell..forget it