I have decided to be on this dating site because I am the type that does not go to bars to meet men and I hope to find a companion for now that feels the same way about meeting people in a bar scene. I am a hard worker and have been at my job as a Human Resources Info Systems Asst Mgr for 29 years and would like to find a man that is as responsible as myself. I am independent but at the same time like the company of someone who enjoys just relaxing, talking, dining out, going to the movies or whatever other interests we may share together. I also feel I need to say I am a daily smoker. So if you are interested in starting up an email or chat, I will be more than happy to respond. However, if you are just looking for a sexual encounter, are married, live in another state besides NJ or NY or DO NOT HAVE A PIC I will not respond to you.