Hi, AS OF ***I've moved to Massachusetts and am finally returning to this site after a long absence. But essentially the *** is the same other than my wife died in ***We have 2 daughters who married east coast guys; 1 in New York City and the other in Massachusetts. As their mother was in her last few months they asked to move east when she passed. So I get to see my grandkids a lot more often! I'm adding to my *** and I've finally added a picture. I haven't met anyone from this site yet but I have from some others. So I'm going to add what I left out of my ***. I am married but my wife has Alzheimer's. She has been in a facility, since *** that cares for those with dementia. She no longer knows anyone, can't take care of herself and is a mere shell of her once vibrant self. I try to visit her every night at dinner time to feed her because that's all I'm able to do for her. Until the spring of this year, *** I hadn't had any sort of ***ual relationship with women since my wife in ***I'm not looking for a wife but I am looking for FWBs. Everything I say below is true about my ***ual desires but I wanted to be sure that all of you understood my situation. BEFORE ***If all you do is look at my *** please give me your thoughts. I'm looking to meet ladies who want more than a dinner companion. I wish to meet ladies who are very interested in giving and getting pleasure. I enjoy giving and getting pleasure using my tongue and lips so the ladies I'd like to meet will also. I truly love eating at the "Y"! I suppose ***ing a woman to her pleasure limit is my obsession and I'm glad it is. I of course want all the other areas of what men and women do with each other while making love but it starts with the desire to give and to get the ***ual pleasure. But if you don't have the absolute NEED for a frantic ***er like me working on you then we won't mesh well. Why am I being blunt here? Because I don't wish meet for the wrong reasons. I definitely want to hike, to travel, to go zip lining, to swim, canoe, raft and many other activities. But because I feel a lot of life still within me (born in *** the ***ual needs come first. I'm clearly not 20 years old but I'm definitely not dead. When I see a friendly, bawdy and happy lady of any age, any weight, any race or any thing else I do get tingles. I of course don't attack every women I see with my tongue but I do have some thoughts as to how she'd react to my longings. So now you know a bit about me.