Enjoy casual dating non-smokers. Able to smell a married man a mile away. Don't have the patience for drama. My fam, friends and co-workers would say. I am motivating optimistic, work too much, honest, loyal, caring and need to find a social life out of my relm. So if you find my name in the obituaries you know who to blame. Would like to find a man who isn't afraid of being Southern and upfront, including coothe. Shyness is not a quality I favor nor is laziness. Needs to be mature, honest, strong, outgoing, sometimes popping a squat and watching sports /movie. Do you ever believe in that one true soul mate? What if mine had bad luck, got ate by a shark, now what do I do???