I am a 39m year old single mom who has never been married. My child comes first of course, but it is time I also start thinking of myself some as well. I have been told that I am easy to talk to and down to earth kind of person. I am tall, and I have a few extra pounds, I am not over weight but yes I have a small tummy and I have earned my extra pounds. I could lose those pounds if I wanted , but really they are not that important to me. I am no super model nor do i want to be, I would rather be a real person that is low maint, and easy to talk to. I may be tall but I am not the pole skinny type, I have curves where a woman should have them. I am looking for friendship and build on that as I feel friendship is what builds lasting relationships. I am looking for someone to share my life with, not just the good times but the bad as well. This takes time so do not expect things to happen over night. I am a modern kind of girl that does not mind paying for things, but am tired of guys taking that as I am the bank roll and will foot the bill. I know what I want in life and just am not willing to settle for less. I have been out of the whole dating seen for some time for a couple of reasons, one to raise my son and two because I have been burned one to many times but guys saying one thing and meaning another. My interests are basic really I like music and listen to it whenever I can if I am out you will find I have my ipod with me. i like going for day trips out of the city and finding places to take beautiful pics. I like horseback riding but rarely get the chance to do anymore. I do not like to go out dancing or to clubs. I trip to a local pub to hear a local band is more what I enjoy, or to play a game of pool. A movie, or out for a nice meal. Walking in a nice park you know the simple things. You will highly unlikely catch me dressed up, I would rather be comfortable and dressed ready to do almost anything that comes to mind. Talking on the phone is not for me, but I guess I am a text junkie. Well if you have made it this far something caught your eye to keep going. I take things slow but am willing to give a good man a fair run for his money. There is so much more but you will have to get to know me to hear about it. Send me a message I will answer all that send them with honesty. Hope to hear from you all.