ideal guy: 37- 58 (not interested in youngins in their 20's or very old guys over 60. i was married to very old guy i didn't like it) Guy must be fun, very active get out there do walking and physical actives daily, likes to workout and take care of himself both physical and diet wise, his face is clean shaven to light facial hair that is well groomed. has smile to light up room. i do notice smiles first. Non smoker because i can't be around people who smoke. prefer a non drinker, no drug users, no gamblers. I did have GBP surgery few months ago so every day i do lose weight and looks do change about every 2 weeks or so. telling me i look "hot, beautiful, pretty, etc" doesn't win you any points. it will actually make roll my eyes and wonder is wrong with you. i am plain average looking not hot not sexy no beautiful not pretty. i do got walks on nice days. some times i go around the block which is 6.48 miles. most days i go about 3 miles depending oh how much i start to feel while walking. looking for someone to go for walks and do other physical actives to help with my weight loss progress. i have pets which are my everything.